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Originally Posted by goratrix ... how is anyone going to want someone like me? It's something I've been asking myself ever since I came out to myself. |
I've been thinking on that for years. Even before coming out to myself. I know that won't help you... "mal de muchos consuelo de tontos" (hard to translate Spanish saying). The fact is that this feeling has to do more with your self-esteem than with the "coming out" process. I've learnt it through therapy. It sound obvious when written this way but for me it was a kind of discovery.
You're estimating your chances of meeting another gay guy based on your present situation. Imagine if, as you said previously, you finally decide to start working out at a gym. Then your chances will be different. In any case, your chances are always over 0%. I've learnt statistics at college, you know!