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DanA · 22nd Jul 2012, 11:48 PM

Yeah, I was the one testicle guy you referenced in the first post. Cancer is difficult. Chemo sucks, surgery sucks, the drugs suck, and I'm sure you may have felt this too but I hated the way people would look at me that knew I had cancer. That sort of "oh sweetie I feel so sorry for you" look. I don't want pity or understanding... I want normalcy.

I dunno, it's hard to expain. It's good you went to support groups and whatnot. At the very least, that can help bring some normalcy back to your life and I'm sure it has.

In terms of the testicle question, I would have no problem from the outset. Maybe because I've gone though a similar thing, but it's no issue to me. I was worried about myself, but kinda got past that mental block and it's just a matter of accepting that you're awesome no matter what you look like. You'll find a good man and if he does leave you for something as trivial as that, you're much better off without him as I'm sure many on here will say.

I'd be psyched to have a guy with no balls... no messy clean up! :P

22nd Jul 2012, 11:48 PM	#11
DanA Used to be dead, but now I'm gay! Full Member Gender: %100 ma-male Orientation: I'm one of them there homosexuals :P Out Status: Burnt that f*ing closet to the ground! Location: Illinois Age: 25 Posts: 255 Join Date:** May 2012	Re: Castrated Yeah, I was the one testicle guy you referenced in the first post. Cancer is difficult. Chemo sucks, surgery sucks, the drugs suck, and I'm sure you may have felt this too but I hated the way people would look at me that knew I had cancer. That sort of "oh sweetie I feel so sorry for you" look. I don't want pity or understanding... I want normalcy. I dunno, it's hard to expain. It's good you went to support groups and whatnot. At the very least, that can help bring some normalcy back to your life and I'm sure it has. In terms of the testicle question, I would have no problem from the outset. Maybe because I've gone though a similar thing, but it's no issue to me. I was worried about myself, but kinda got past that mental block and it's just a matter of accepting that you're awesome no matter what you look like. You'll find a good man and if he does leave you for something as trivial as that, you're much better off without him as I'm sure many on here will say. I'd be psyched to have a guy with no balls... no messy clean up! :P __________________ [+=..] Kickin' it old school! (+--::)