Well, I think Paul said it all...
Usually, situations like these arise becoz we see things from one perspective (I had to make all these arrangements and do all these things) and the other person (she) simply thinks "so what's the big deal..."
Would she have had any way of knowing that it involved quite a bit of inconvenience for you to do all this stuff in order to meet up with her? I rather doubt it. In which case, perhaps you could give her the benefit of the doubt. |