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goratrix · 9th Jun 2005, 04:48 PM

First of all, welcome to the forum. I hope you have a great time here!

I can understand your situation. It would be good if you told us a little about yourself, because each situation is different and is to be addressed diferently. However, I do feel that I can tell you that your feelings are completely natural, believe me, I've experienced them myself many times.

As to whether he's straight or not... well you can alwas ask (XD) but mixed signals are common. Not having girfriend is not a signal. I'm sorry, but I have a couple of friends (quiet a few actually) that haven't had a girlfriend in a few years (almost 5). And I'm pretty certain that they are straight (except about one of them that I think is asexual XD). If he acts not interested at all or way too interested, i.e if he goes to the extremes, you can suspect there is something off... and perhaps you'd be able to bring it up in a conversation.

Anyway, you don't say much about yourself, and that makes it quiet difficult to give any advice at all...

Most important of all, make peace with yourself, and you shall have peace with others.

9th Jun 2005, 04:48 PM	#13
goratrix EC Addict Full Member Age: 25 Posts: 570 Join Date: Apr 2005	First of all, welcome to the forum. I hope you have a great time here! I can understand your situation. It would be good if you told us a little about yourself, because each situation is different and is to be addressed diferently. However, I do feel that I can tell you that your feelings are completely natural, believe me, I've experienced them myself many times. As to whether he's straight or not... well you can alwas ask (XD) but mixed signals are common. Not having girfriend is not a signal. I'm sorry, but I have a couple of friends (quiet a few actually) that haven't had a girlfriend in a few years (almost 5). And I'm pretty certain that they are straight (except about one of them that I think is asexual XD). If he acts not interested at all or way too interested, i.e if he goes to the extremes, you can suspect there is something off... and perhaps you'd be able to bring it up in a conversation. Anyway, you don't say much about yourself, and that makes it quiet difficult to give any advice at all... Most important of all, make peace with yourself, and you shall have peace with others. __________________ Cicciux Back from beyond. A different dog.