 Re: no one knows
Don't stress about it, that will just make it worse. It takes time and patience. Don't try to label yourself too fast, just be open to everything and eventually it will start to fall into place. You seem concerned that no one knows. If you really feel the need to talk to someone about this then try to find someone who you really trust who will listen to you. If you're not burning to let it out, remember that there is nothing wrong with being in the closet for a little while. You don't have some great epiphany that solves all of your problems when you come out, you still have the same set of challenges with identifying yourself as you always did. That being said, it can help to have someone to shoulder some of the weight of finding your sexual identity, so a good person to talk to is always a nice resource to have. If you can't find someone to talk to in real life, then come around to EC, we're awful friendly and almost everyone on here has been exactly where you are in your head right now and they can help shed some light in a dark place. Hope this made sense, I am pretty tired. Best of luck =) |