Re: Is "Are you a boy or a girl?" really about genitals?
I feel like a young kid would most likely be the one asking this question. I imagine a young kid walking up to a rather androgynous-looking person, and asking, "Are you a boy or a girl?" because they want to know how to react to them. In which case, no, they don't give a damn about genitals. But if you, for example, say you are a girl, and then act like a boy(I don't really know what that would mean, but you might give off a certain vibe or something), that would probably confuse them.