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mentoaddict · 4th Jul 2011, 11:54 AM

I always find telling secrets to people easier over the likes of facebook as you don't have to physically say it out loud, maybe that's a bit due to denial, but I find it easier, I think I'm bi but haven't came out as I am not sure but I found when I told some of my closest friends about my past with bulimia typing it just seemed easier, and if they brought it up in normal face to face conversation fine, but I was much more comfortable just typing it, I almost thought that the easiest way to come out as bi would be to just change my facebook to interested in men and women, but truly when I'm not sure I don't know whether I should tell anyone! Seriously just tell her if you are sure about being bi, I mean would you want your best friend to hide a secret from you? Hope I can help!

4th Jul 2011, 11:54 AM	#2
mentoaddict Newbie Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Not out at all Location: Chichester, UK Age: 18 Posts: 9 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Help... I always find telling secrets to people easier over the likes of facebook as you don't have to physically say it out loud, maybe that's a bit due to denial, but I find it easier, I think I'm bi but haven't came out as I am not sure but I found when I told some of my closest friends about my past with bulimia typing it just seemed easier, and if they brought it up in normal face to face conversation fine, but I was much more comfortable just typing it, I almost thought that the easiest way to come out as bi would be to just change my facebook to interested in men and women, but truly when I'm not sure I don't know whether I should tell anyone! Seriously just tell her if you are sure about being bi, I mean would you want your best friend to hide a secret from you? Hope I can help!