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nerdyboy87 · 22nd Jul 2011, 01:23 AM

Sometimes you just give off that vibe. You don't have to dress in pink and talk with a lisp for people to know. Sometimes you just give off subtle clues. Like you said, he was just suspscious. It's almost impossible to keep it completely under wraps, especially since you're confused. And consider some people just always speculate, even on people that are straight as an arrow.

I wouldn't worry about it. Nothing you can really do about it anyway. The more you worry and think about it, the more attention you'll bring to it.

22nd Jul 2011, 01:23 AM	#8
nerdyboy87 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Posts: 50 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Fearing gaydar? Sometimes you just give off that vibe. You don't have to dress in pink and talk with a lisp for people to know. Sometimes you just give off subtle clues. Like you said, he was just suspscious. It's almost impossible to keep it completely under wraps, especially since you're confused. And consider some people just always speculate, even on people that are straight as an arrow. I wouldn't worry about it. Nothing you can really do about it anyway. The more you worry and think about it, the more attention you'll bring to it.