[Anonymous]

I used to be heaps social - would go out and party quite often.. once I came out, my priorities changed and I realised a lot of that partying was associated with me hiding my true self - drinking, lowering inhibitions etc. Now I'm out, I find I have become much less social.. I don't really have the interest in seeing lots of people and going to heterosexual bars and clubs doesn't interest me, in fact I'm quite repelled. I think I would still like to get back into going to gay clubs, but I kind of feel out of the loop and need to find some friends to go with (fingers crossed I will when I start uni soon) - Have others found this though? Its like my priorities have changed completely since coming out and I've become even become a bit anti-social - most Fridays and Saturdays I spend at home, and would prefer a good nights sleep than a big night out.. I am in my mid 20s though - maybe I'm just getting old! lol