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Old 13th May 2008, 12:16 AM   #1
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Default How do lesbians have sex?

I feel so stupid for asking, but when me and my girlfrind talk about having sex, i kee avoiding the discussion with the "when we're both ready" stuff. bit honestly? i dont know HOW to make lover to her V_V
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Old 13th May 2008, 12:18 AM   #2
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From what I understand, it's a bit of oral, some fingers, 69, that type of stuff. If you want to use strap-ons, then that's fine. But it's really up to your own personal sexual tastes.

xD I just know because I was always insanely curious as to like, what lesbians DO since there's nothing to really insert other than fingers, so yeah.
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Old 13th May 2008, 12:30 AM   #3
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Don't forget tribadism!: The rubbing of your vagina against other body parts (most probably another vagina).

The most common form of this is scissoring. (I think you can imagine how this works.) Here is a visual aid in mathy cognito:

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< + > = x.

The majority of female orgasms comes from stimulating the clitoris anyways. No need for penises or insertion here! No offense to those with peenors.

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Old 13th May 2008, 12:30 AM   #4
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Ohhhh, so that's what scissoring is. I totally never understood the term. :P
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Old 13th May 2008, 12:33 AM   #5
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I have taught a gay man how to have lesbian sex. I can't think of anything useless-er.
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Old 13th May 2008, 12:35 AM   #6
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xDDD I'll totally pass it on to a lesbian so it won't be completely lost on me.
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Old 13th May 2008, 02:50 AM   #7
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Just do what comes naturally. Touch her with whatever parts of yourself you want (suggestions: hand, genitals, tongue) and let her do the same to you. Experiment. Have great fun! I would suggest reading some lesbian erotica if you need ideas. If you find something good it could even make a nice starter. PM me if you want a recommendation. And remember just to have fun with it. There's no right or wrong method, just what feels good.
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Never ever underestimate the role of hands and tongue. Seriously. They can be used in a variety of ways all over the body.

And if that isn't interesting enough, incorporate whipped cream or chocolate.
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Don't forget the boobs....Boobs are lots of fun
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My girlfriend and i have been dating for like almost 2 months but we have been best friends for 9 months but her family hates the fact that she is a lesbian and its really hard for us to do sexual things with her. can anyone help me?
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I have taught a gay man how to have lesbian sex. I can't think of anything useless-er.
HAHA! my mom just came over here and asked me why I'm laughing so hard!
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Old 15th Dec 2012, 12:16 AM   #12
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Erika Moen GirlFuck This is a great little booklet that is written for people who know nothing about the subject at all.

This is the guide I use for the first few times with my girlfriend. First Time Lesbian Sex Tips
I especially agree with #5.

And this is the very best guide to oral sex in the UNIVERSE!
A Lesbo's Guide to Eating Vagina | VICE

These have just about everything you need for a crash course in lesbian love. The main thing is:
If it feels good, do it!

Follow that and no matter what you do, it'll be sex, and it'll be fun.

Remember to choose a partner who you respect, who respects you, practice safe sex, and good consent! Learning Good Consent

All these urls are guides for sex, so they are NSFW, but none of them are obscene or have full nudity.

Have fun! Happy holidays, and happy humping.
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^^ That was me!
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LOL, damn this is the funniest question i've read today.
I'm gay and even I know how Lesbians have intercourse.
Sadly, yes I have seen lesbian adult video, I don't know why I saw it either.
How I saw it? I was watching it with my brother. it was wierd.

The thing I didn't get was "two girls and a cup" video
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Old 15th Dec 2012, 12:51 AM   #15
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Well, I think I'm going to add this to the stock pile of information that I'm never going to need. OR WILL I? O_o
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Old 15th Dec 2012, 07:35 PM   #16
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Having sex with a woman is the same as having sex with anyone - you do what feels good for both of you. The guys who are on here making it sound like it's not really sex if a penis/penetration isn't involved need to get a life, no one was actually asking you anyway. That kind of sex has little to do with how a woman is formed and where most of her nerve endings are. Women's sex can be incredibly good, far better than with a penis if you're into women in the first place, and extremely varied. The things mentioned here don't cover the half of it.

There are a lot of great books on the subject, such as the Whole Lesbian Sex Book. But the best resource to start with, is masturbating. It's hard to know how to please a woman if you don't know how to please ANY woman. So start with yourself, that is usually a huge clue into what someone else will like. The main sexual arousal organ for a woman is the clitoris, which is on the outside of the body - which is why having penetration is not necessary for women to have an orgasm. Learn where it is, and how to touch and how not to touch it (direct stimulation is often a bad thing) to get where you want to go. You can also try the internal feelings of penetration, and other areas like the breasts, to see what's good. The next thing is to find what your gf likes, and you can figure some of that out without removing any clothes, just by making out and touching, or talking about it. But don't move too fast, sex is a serious thing, and you shouldn't do it if you're not ready. For women, orgasming releases hormones that make you feel "in love" and very emotionally attached to this person, and they stay in your system for about 3 weeks. That tends to lead to drama, and can result in far more hurt than you ever felt in your life. So take it slow. My personal feeling is, if you're not old enough to have your own car to drive in or some personal space somewhere, then you're not old enough to have sex. Making out is fun anyway.
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u gotta get a strap on dildo. haha.
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u gotta get a strap on dildo. haha.
Seriously, what kind of troll is a gay man who clicks on a topic about lesbian sex, and then posts an obnoxious joke to a person trying to get help - on a SUPPORT website? Do you think the women on this site could not post troll comments to all of male sex topics on EC? But we are too aware that this is a site for helping people to do that. Get a life, loser.
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