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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:45 PM   #1
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people here can be so cruel! your trying to have fun and post in the Fun and Games section and they come back with the crappiest most offensive answers! I can't believe how B****y some people can be! it annoys me so much. YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME! I'm trying to get to know people here but i'm not HOT so i get dissed when i try to do anything. What is wrong with you people? Are looks really THAT important? Then again I have been called stupid here because I dont' look at how someone looks first.
"yeah its okay if someone is nice but they have to be hot to get my attention!" ive been told. are you serious?

if all of this keeps up i might not be able to stick around which really upsets me beacause I thought this could be a place to come to to make friends but so far over half the people have clearly stated (though not really in these excat words but implied) "you are not hot so get away from me!"

so if thats really how you people feel then fine I'll be long gone! but like i said it saddens me that i would have to give up this place and that you people would actually drive someone away like this.

i would like to add this is not about everybody i will not mention names of good or bad becaue i'm not that kind of person but i would like to send a thank you to all of you who are kind to everybody and let looks slide past when your making a decision on someone!
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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:49 PM   #2
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I really apologize if my behavior has offended you or hurt your feelings. Personally, from Seanathon, to whoever you may be, I'm sorry. Please don't leave - we value each other. Although some people may not be friendly and nice, the other 99% are. I'm sorry that you feel this way, and I apologize, on behalf of me and the rest of EC.

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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:51 PM   #3
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hey well im sorry that people r doin that but not everyone here is not like that and those asses that are should shove it. u should just keepin tryin to find some nice people who dont care wat u look like cuz there r people in here that r nice. all u have to do is ignore those other whores and good luck in finding some nice people
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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:53 PM   #4
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see its people like you two who make me want to stay.
and don't worry sean you've never offended me.
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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:55 PM   #5
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well im glad that we could further aid in ur decision to stay and u really should stay
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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:56 PM   #6
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well im glad that we could further aid in ur decision to stay and u really should stay
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Old 17th Jun 2008, 09:56 PM   #7
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You wanna kno I'd do in your position? Laugh at how they are convinced that a pretty face can turn the world. Go ahead and let them think that if you show some make-up splattered face that the world turns around them. Just wait a few years, and then go ahead and laugh at them while you are secsessful and they are out in the streets, not sure what just happened to them.

Look at me. I have a beard that'd put Chuck Norris to shame. I call MYSELF a Nerd. And if you look at some of my posts, I'm probably a moron. wanna know what I say?

THANK THE HOLY HEVENS AND DEITIES ALL MIGHTY OF THE COSMOS THAT I AM NOT LIKE THE REST OF THE WORLD!!!

Becuse If I where, I would be convinced that the only way to be the best is to be just like every one else.

So if you need to, Message me, and we can embrace out unattractivness.
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Old 17th Jun 2008, 10:01 PM   #8
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^_^ lol i see your point.

i guess staying won't be to hard.
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 06:47 AM   #9
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I kinda agree with you too about that attitude around here. But then again I'm not on as often as I used to be. EC for me was just a step and a resource and now that I came out and embrace who I am I really have no use for it except for the wonderful friends I made that I talk to. I'm pretty sure if you can get to know more people better you will see that their are some pretty kick ass people here who are awesome and fun. if you ever wana talk you can PM me or my aim and msn should be to <---------- that side lol.
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I don't know what the cause of this upset is for you but if people are bitches and cruel I think you should take it to the Mods. Everyone is welcome here and people shouldn't be made to feel worthless because they are not 'hot'.

If this does happen to you again, don't leave, take it to the Mods and they will take the appropriate action.
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 07:38 AM   #11
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Awwwww I'm sorry you feel so bad about this place.

I try not to choose by looks so I hope I've never ever implied I've done anything like that. If I have - I'm sorry. I hope I've been fair to everyone on EC.
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 07:38 AM   #12
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^Stupid red box..
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 07:47 AM   #13
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To me - and this is just me talking - there's not much attitude here. Admittedly, occasionally somebody gets a bit giddy, and says "I think Brooklyn is so cute!", and then there's some piling on. "Yeah, Brooklyn is hot!" "Brooklyn is the coolest person in the world." And that can be a bit annoying, because...well, because you're not Brooklyn. They're all crushing over somebody other than you. And it can make you feel left out. Sorry, but it happens. Not just here, but everywhere. Try not to take it personally if you can.

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Old 18th Jun 2008, 07:57 AM   #14
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^Yeah Lex because everyone's always telling you how awesome you are...lol
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It's the tail.

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Old 18th Jun 2008, 08:05 AM   #16
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You're awesome because you got a tail?!?!
I want a tail!!
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 08:06 AM   #17
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No comment..we all know how much we hate the red box.
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 01:39 PM   #18
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Hi! I don't know what happened, but if there is a problem or you feel that someone has treated you unfairly (and as Louise indicated) talk to the moderators. You can post your problem in "ask the mods" or just pm them. EC is here for you to get to know new people and for you to talk about your problems.

Also, as Lex mentioned, don't take these things too personally though. If there are a few people on here who have the attitude "you are not hot so get away from me!" they don't deserve to get to know you (and your friendship) in the first place! But there are others on here who will want to get to know you and be friends with you.

Hope you decide to stay.
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Old 18th Jun 2008, 02:12 PM   #19
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Let the battle of the pretty folk and the ugly folk begin!!!!!!!

I'm kidding. But seriously, you sir are causing problems of your own, even if someone did initiate the attack, you need to get past thaT. If you want to give up on this site (a site whose majority is trying to support and love you), then you will be giving up yourself.

Who cares if someone finds you unattractive, others will find you attractive. I bet there is someone in your school who is staying up at night thinking of you.

Big deal if some dufus ripped a burn on your pride. You will meet dicks in this world, and you will meet dirtbags. But if you stick around long enough, you will find that you will gravitate to the people who care the most about you, your friends.

Anyways... Will you be my friend?
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