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Old 13th Jan 2014, 04:52 AM   #1
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Default Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

Well, I say it like that because I still have romantic feelings for guys. Lots of crushes in the past.

And I'm a girl if you needed to know before answering.

But that's not what I'm asking. I know my romantic attraction, but now I'd like to confirm my sexual attraction. Let's just clear the table and say I sexually like girls. That's there and done, but now I'd like to talk about boys. Their looks overall are attractive to me-- everything except their gents.

I've been aroused by boys because of the way they act, look and touch, but if I have to touch or look at their penis I instantly get turned off. Pretty much any penetration or contact with penis would bother/disgust me. I just wanted to know: Would that be considered homosexual?

Even if it's the right answer, please please PLEASE don't tell me only I can know what my sexuality truly is. I'd at least like to see what you guys think of the situation before letting me handle it. I've been thinking for a really long time about it (years, actually) and I still don't know what I like.

Thanks for reading this long text-post.
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Old 13th Jan 2014, 05:15 AM   #2
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Default Re: Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

box A:
heteroromantic
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box B:
heterosexual
homosexual
bisexual...
Some people label themselves that they choose one word from "box A" and one word from "box B".
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Old 13th Jan 2014, 06:28 AM   #3
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Default Re: Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

When you say you sexually like girls, what exactly do you mean by that? Get turned on by girls visually, or actually had some form of sexual contact with one?
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Old 13th Jan 2014, 07:29 AM   #4
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When you say you sexually like girls, what exactly do you mean by that? Get turned on by girls visually, or actually had some form of sexual contact with one?
Well, no, I haven't has actual contact with a girl yet, but I'd really like to.
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Old 13th Jan 2014, 01:37 PM   #5
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Default Re: Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

You might be homosexual, or you might not. I hate to look at a penis, think they're ugly, but then so does a totally straight female friend of mine and she does all kinds of things with them that I don't care to do. She prefers how females look (just like me) but won't or can't do anything sexually with a girl, feels wrong to her.
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Old 13th Jan 2014, 05:22 PM   #6
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Default Re: Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

I'd say you're probably some kind of bisexual who's mostly interested in men romantically instead of sexually.
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Old 14th Jan 2014, 03:24 PM   #7
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Default Re: Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

I'm a girl too, and I think I would say that I'm homosexual, heteroromantic or something.

I've had two boyfriends in the past, never a girlfriend. I pretty much only get turned on by girls sexually and guys special parts turn me off. Still I can feel a bit romantically attracted to guys, and I can appreciate their looks, but not really get sexually turned on by them.

Sexuality is complicated!
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Default Re: Don't like penis. Am I a homosexual?

Sexual orientation (with the exception of asexuality) is about what you do like, not what you don't. My utter disinterest in boobs doesn't make me gay, it's the fact that I like guys that does.
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I'm a girl too, and I think I would say that I'm homosexual, heteroromantic or something.

I've had two boyfriends in the past, never a girlfriend. I pretty much only get turned on by girls sexually and guys special parts turn me off. Still I can feel a bit romantically attracted to guys, and I can appreciate their looks, but not really get sexually turned on by them.

Sexuality is complicated!
Haha that's almost how I feel XD I've had like, only two girl crushes vs. TONS of boy crushes, lol. Maybe that's what I am
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