Empty Closets Coming Out Resources and a Safe Place to Chat
Welcome Forum Chat Room Resources News Members

Go Back   Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out > Support Area > Anonymous Discussions

Anonymous Discussions If you don't want to put your name to your post you can post anonymously here.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 14th Mar 2011, 12:45 AM   #1
Posting Anonymously
 
Anonymous's Avatar
 
Posts: 74,916
Join Date: Dec 2007


Default Hard time getting it up? <.>

For the past couple of days I've had this problem getting it up to anything, girls, guys, any type of sexual activity whatsoever, I just can't seem to be able to get it up at all.

It's been goin on these past few days, and I've not had this problem before, I guess I'm just not horny at all? Though I was the other day and it still wouldn't get up, any reason why this would happen?

Stupid question is stupid I know n_n;
Anonymous is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 14th Mar 2011, 02:35 AM   #2
Thoughts become things C:
Full Member
 
TyRawr's Avatar
 
Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: Out to everyone
Location: Fair Oaks CA
Posts: 616
Join Date: Feb 2011


Default Re: Hard time getting it up? <.>

Blood thinners could defiantly have something to do with it, if you are on any. Such as Advil, aspirin, ect.

If your not on blood thinners, then i wonder how often you masturbate. If its all the time, then it may factor, as well as to what you are masturbating to. Porn can make things interesting for a wile, but after a wile it kind of makes you lose pleasure in it.

If its that then I would take a break for a few days, maybe a week, and try again.

Alternative is you have a really big wanger, and you dont have enough blood in your body to get it up. If thats the case, eat lots of iron, potassium, and drink lots of water.
Mushrooms are a good source of iron if your are a vegetarian.
__________________
~Tyler

The darkness does not destroy the light, it defines it. It is our fear that casts our joy into shadows. ~Brene Brown
TyRawr is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 14th Mar 2011, 03:43 AM   #3
Posting Anonymously
 
Anonymous's Avatar
 
Posts: 74,916
Join Date: Dec 2007


Default Re: Hard time getting it up? <.>

Ah, I've been on aspirin and some pain relievers for the past couple of days that might be it, thanks alot.
Anonymous is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 14th Mar 2011, 06:14 AM   #4
Cecile's sidekick
EC Advisor
 
Filip's Avatar
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: All but extended family
Location: Belgium, EU
Age: 31
Posts: 4,019
Join Date: Feb 2009


Default Re: Hard time getting it up? <.>

Quote:
Originally Posted by TyRawr View Post
Alternative is you have a really big wanger, and you dont have enough blood in your body to get it up. If thats the case, eat lots of iron, potassium, and drink lots of water.

Luckily, this is highly unlikely (the insufficient blood, I mean, not the size). Erection does not take all that much blood. If you can't even miss a couple of centiliters, you're liable to be fainting from lack of blood on a regular basis.

That said, eating healthy is obviously not a bad advice.
And I do agree with the rest: medication can have an effect, as can being ill or being stressed. Medication was usually developed with getting better as a first thought, and sex a distant second...
__________________
To the world, you're somebody, but to somebody, you're the world...
Filip is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 14th Mar 2011, 06:20 AM   #5
Posting Anonymously
 
Anonymous's Avatar
 
Posts: 74,916
Join Date: Dec 2007


Default Re: Hard time getting it up? <.>

Also any antidepressants you may be on, can greatly diminish your sex drive, it's an unfortunate side effect, but at least a manageable one
Anonymous is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
I Messed up Big Time with straight friend Beachboi92 Coming Out Advice 20 10th Mar 2011 12:31 AM
Not so good... Dave Coming Out Stories 13 6th Mar 2011 11:07 AM
Jim Langevin: Now is the time to redefine marriage in R.I. Dan82 Current Events, World News, & LGBT News 0 5th Mar 2011 04:52 PM
Another Coming Out-This Time, He Knew Iniquity Coming Out Stories 3 27th Feb 2011 06:35 PM


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 11:35 AM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0
Copyright (c) 2004-2014, Empty Closets Community Services
the Empty Closets name and logo are registered trademarks of Empty Closets Community Services

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20