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Old 20th Feb 2012, 05:02 PM   #2121
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 05:26 PM   #2122
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 05:33 PM   #2123
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 05:40 PM   #2124
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I just want to give up. Quit everything I'm doing, move out, and live in some little dumpy place... I just don't know what to do anymore....
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 06:35 PM   #2125
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My life is slowly unraveling since my rape. I have so much anxiety to deal with, but I cannot let it get to me. That fucking rape cost me Dean's List. I'm pissed off about that to say the least. I hate him.
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 06:51 PM   #2126
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I just want to give up. Quit everything I'm doing, move out, and live in some little dumpy place... I just don't know what to do anymore....
Hi there! Why and on what do you want to give up? Not sure if it would help, but maybe try writing out some the things that are going. It might help you.
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 08:29 PM   #2127
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My confidence is growing back. I have EC, some awesome friends, and a very helpful counsellor to thank. I might have been in a very bad place without all of your help.
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Old 20th Feb 2012, 08:30 PM   #2128
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I have two boyfriends that I kind of want to sleep with at the same time
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Old 21st Feb 2012, 12:01 AM   #2129
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I have cybersex because no one loves me. When we “fuck” I ask them “Do you love me?” and then they close the chat.

I hurt because I have no one.
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Old 21st Feb 2012, 01:06 AM   #2130
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I have cybersex because no one loves me. When we “fuck” I ask them “Do you love me?” and then they close the chat.

I hurt because I have no one.
Hey sweetheart ,

you know, most people who are having cybersex do that for the only sake of having cybersex. They're not searching for any meaningful kind of relationship or even for sharing a moment with someone.
I think that, if you're having cybersex to get the feeling someone loves you, you're only going to end up hurt and you'll feel even more lonely.
I am sure you're having people in your life who are caring about you. Maybe you don't have any significant other at the moment, but that doesn't mean it'll always be the case. Keep looking at the world with an open mind and an open heart and I'm sure that you'll find someone to love who will return the feeling.

Take care and keep in mind that when you feel lonely, there is always someone on EC to talk to
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Old 21st Feb 2012, 06:47 AM   #2131
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Old 21st Feb 2012, 10:33 PM   #2132
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Manscaping is no fun. It makes me itchy.
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 12:37 AM   #2133
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I hate you so much and you don't even know me. You ruined my damn life and only if you didn't exist I might not be as bad as I am now.

Look at me, I'm supposed to be this happy go lucky person and here I am angry and wanting to smack you in the face.
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 03:20 AM   #2134
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Why is it that I'm comfortable calling her pet names and signing texts with "xoxo" and stuff, and I've even worked up the nerve to kiss her a couple of times, but I don't have the guts to tell her outright that I like her? I'm fairly sure she likes me - from the things she says to me, and a mutual friend has told me that she's said she really likes me - but I'm kind of a coward.
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 04:24 AM   #2135
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it is so awesome i decided to stand up for being gay in an online game i was playing, and at the end of it, one of my team mates added me as a friend and told me he too was gay and said i have made him happy, because he was depressed about being in the closet.

i feel so proud that i not only made a friend, but that i also gave him hope and made him happy.
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 08:42 AM   #2136
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Finally made a secondary Facebook page so that I can follow gay organizations and clubs I'm interested in. Maybe one day I'll be able to merge my two pages.
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 09:11 AM   #2137
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it is so awesome i decided to stand up for being gay in an online game i was playing, and at the end of it, one of my team mates added me as a friend and told me he too was gay and said i have made him happy, because he was depressed about being in the closet.

i feel so proud that i not only made a friend, but that i also gave him hope and made him happy.
That's awesome! Those little moments really make everything worth it
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 07:13 PM   #2138
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I'm...a little tempted to try cyber sex...
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 07:19 PM   #2139
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I'm...a little tempted to try cyber sex...
Been there, done that. I guess it was kinda good at the moment, but afterwards I just felt cheap and used.

If you feel like trying it, go for it. I just wouldn't get your hopes up and expect too much out of it.
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Old 22nd Feb 2012, 07:19 PM   #2140
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Sometimes, Im not so sure Im in love anymore. I feel like my relationship is suffocating me, I cant help him.
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