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Old 9th Jan 2012, 03:21 PM   #1
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I'm depressed as fuck. Thining hair as a transwoman feels like a death sentance for my being able to transition well. Is a wig really going to look good? I don't know but it stresses me out and I hate seeing other woman since I'm jealous of their bodies. I've been through a male puberty and it sucks. My bodies been masculinized and now I'm looking fucking guyish and none of it feels right.

Also I was raped when I was pretty young and especially after seeing the girl with the dragon tattoo I just want revenge. I was a kid when he raped me and I know that the fucker works with kids. I'm definetley not gonna do what she did in the movie but I want some sort of revenge and don't know how to get it. IDK maybe send a letter to his bosses, co-workers or family members or something. I fucking hate him.

I've never been so mad and yet felt like I didn't give a fuck about anything at the same time. I guess I just wanted to get my feelings out. Anyone have any suggestions about what I should do?
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Honestly you should tell the police, if he works with kids you really need to tell the authorities. He will definitely lose his job, and will be labeled a pedophile. I guess if you want revenge that is the best method. But you need to tell the police because it's the right thing to do. Don't let him hurt anyone else.
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Honestly you should tell the police, if he works with kids you really need to tell the authorities. He will definitely lose his job, and will be labeled a pedophile. I guess if you want revenge that is the best method. But you need to tell the police because it's the right thing to do. Don't let him hurt anyone else.
OP here, The problem is that I can't "prove" that it happened, it was like 10 to 15 years ago. I told my dad and got told not to tell anyone else so that's what I did for a really long time. I'm also worried about the possibility of slander or libel from taking him to court or whatever.
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Old 9th Jan 2012, 04:10 PM   #4
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I'm really sorry for what happened to you

I guess that is a problem because you can't prove it, but you should tip off the police somehow. If he works with kids they will take that seriously. Odds are they will find something about him (probably internet history) that will prove your right. You really need to tell the police. No one else needs to get hurt because of him.
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