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Anonymous · 12th Jan 2012, 12:49 AM

so im not looking for advice, its more like a little mini rant about something dumb. Anyways so theres this guy i kinda have a crush on, "J". i had him in classes at my university. I was whatever about it. I thought i would be over it in my winter vacation because i won't see him and i probably won't have him for classes. so thing is I haven't gotten over him. its weird. like we weren't really friends so i didn't get to know him that well. Anyways, i have never heard his name on other people as many times as these days. And i have not been able to hear names with the letter J. as if thats not weird enough. i went on a hook up site. and i have gotten people with their name starting with the letter J or with the name of the guy i like. WTF this isn't helping me get over him. It feels like I'm not meant to get it over him. annoying much.. On top of that i keep dreaming about him. uuugh ok thats it. pointless but had to get it out. you guys can put your input, might help with something lol.

Anonymous · 12th Jan 2012, 01:10 AM

The letter J (name???) has always been around...it was just never that important to you before you met this guy. Hence, you didn't care for it! Now that it's associated with someone that's probably dominating your mind, your attention is basically drawn to it, as it search for ways to satisfy your desire for the guy.

I've been there and is, somewhat, still there. I see the letter T (name???) in everything. It's gotten better though because I no longer see it as a sign from God@! It's one of those, 'the more you resist, the worse it gets', kind of situation. So try to take it easy! Tell yourself that if you can't stop thinking him, MEH!!!

Jonathan · 12th Jan 2012, 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous

The letter J (name???) has always been around...it was just never that important to you before you met this guy. Hence, you didn't care for it! Now that it's associated with someone that's probably dominating your mind, your attention is basically drawn to it, as it search for ways to satisfy your desire for the guy.

Took the words right out of my mouth ^
The names have always been there, you just never noticed them before.

On a side note.... J names are simply amazing

Anonymous · 13th Jan 2012, 05:29 PM

you guys are right.. ugh i wish i can stop thinking about this boy.

12th Jan 2012, 12:49 AM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	what's up with the "J's" so im not looking for advice, its more like a little mini rant about something dumb. Anyways so theres this guy i kinda have a crush on, "J". i had him in classes at my university. I was whatever about it. I thought i would be over it in my winter vacation because i won't see him and i probably won't have him for classes. so thing is I haven't gotten over him. its weird. like we weren't really friends so i didn't get to know him that well. Anyways, i have never heard his name on other people as many times as these days. And i have not been able to hear names with the letter J. as if thats not weird enough. i went on a hook up site. and i have gotten people with their name starting with the letter J or with the name of the guy i like. WTF this isn't helping me get over him. It feels like I'm not meant to get it over him. annoying much.. On top of that i keep dreaming about him. uuugh ok thats it. pointless but had to get it out. you guys can put your input, might help with something lol.

12th Jan 2012, 01:10 AM	#2
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: what's up with the "J's" The letter J (name???) has always been around...it was just never that important to you before you met this guy. Hence, you didn't care for it! Now that it's associated with someone that's probably dominating your mind, your attention is basically drawn to it, as it search for ways to satisfy your desire for the guy. I've been there and is, somewhat, still there. I see the letter T (name???) in everything. It's gotten better though because I no longer see it as a sign from God@! It's one of those, 'the more you resist, the worse it gets', kind of situation. So try to take it easy! Tell yourself that if you can't stop thinking him, MEH!!!

13th Jan 2012, 05:29 PM	#4
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: what's up with the "J's" you guys are right.. ugh i wish i can stop thinking about this boy.