Lesbian Sex

[Anonymous]

Is there any right way to you know have sex with another woman? I was with my girl friend tonight and we started to kiss, and feel each other. I had no idea what to do, so we just kissed and touched each other. I do have to say that some of it comes natural.

My pants were so soaked that I had to change them. (embarrassing)

Is there a guideline that I can follow to practice when it comes to sex. This would be great to talk to my mom or dad about but they are pretty straight and have been married for 30 years.

What to do? I don't know how to finger or anything. I want to be pretty descant and fun. What form of practice can I try? Sorry if I sound dumb and or clueless.

Also is it normal for people to orgasm without even being touched? I have seemed to have this great power and actually ejaculate? It's embarrassing too. Is there any way to control it? (not trying to be factious but very serious)

[ICTOAUN]

Lesbian sex is the besttt
#1 rule: before u go in her. Make sure she's wet. Cause if u don't, it mite hurt her!
Hmm what other basic things can I share with u... Use two fingers.
Any specific questions? That'll make this easier for me

[Anonymous]

Well, I would do to your girlfriend what you like to do for yourself when masturbating. I've always found that clitoral stimulation is pretty important. There are more nerve endings in the clitoris than in a man's penis. Also, there are a lot of nerve endings in the upper portion of the vagina so like the beginning of the vagina. I would ask your girlfriend what she likes. When in doubt, try for clitoral stimulation. And start with one finger before adding anymore. It's important she is wet like the other poster said. Don't just put in two fingers without asking your girlfriend if it's ok or before getting her ready for that with one finger.

Practice by masturbating and seeing what feels best to you. That way you can try the same things on your girlfriend.

I think it's normal to orgasm before someone touches you if you're really attracted to her and you're making out. It is hard to control your body's reactions. Don't worry too much because as girls, we don't have the whole boner thing going on to where other people can tell we are excited.

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Well, I would do to your girlfriend what you like to do for yourself when masturbating. I've always found that clitoral stimulation is pretty important. There are more nerve endings in the clitoris than in a man's penis. Also, there are a lot of nerve endings in the upper portion of the vagina so like the beginning of the vagina. I would ask your girlfriend what she likes. When in doubt, try for clitoral stimulation. And start with one finger before adding anymore. It's important she is wet like the other poster said. Don't just put in two fingers without asking your girlfriend if it's ok or before getting her ready for that with one finger.

Practice by masturbating and seeing what feels best to you. That way you can try the same things on your girlfriend.

I think it's normal to orgasm before someone touches you if you're really attracted to her and you're making out. It is hard to control your body's reactions. Don't worry too much because as girls, we don't have the whole boner thing going on to where other people can tell we are excited.

Will it hurt her? Or me! Idk how to masturbate with inserting my fingers. I feel dumb.

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Will it hurt her? Or me! Idk how to masturbate with inserting my fingers. I feel dumb.

You're not dumb at all hon. The only reason I know is because my friend taught me a while back. If you feel more comfortable, you could start with her by just clitoral stimulation. What do you enjoy? Ask yourself that and try it on your girlfriend. Also, good communication helps. If you and your girlfriend are in the moment, you can ask each other what feels right. So you could ask "Is it okay if I....." or "Does this hurt?" just to make sure since it's your first time.

You don't have to insert fingers the first time. Even if you do, it won't hurt as long as you take it slow at first.

[Bedroom Hymns]

I'm no lesbian but I believe oral sex would be great; women in general seem to love it.

[Anonymous]

Agreed that you should start with the clitoris, but it's hard to find! Figuring out where yours is is a good start, although you're probably going to have to ask for help anyway. Alternatively, you can go down on her which allows you to see what you're doing. Either way, start touching her and just ask her to make a noise if something feels good (she might do this anyway). If it's good, obviously keep doing it.

[Anonymous]

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Autostraddle — How to Have Lesbian Sex Tips from NSFW Sunday

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Well, I would do to your girlfriend what you like to do for yourself when masturbating. I've always found that clitoral stimulation is pretty important. There are more nerve endings in the clitoris than in a man's penis. Also, there are a lot of nerve endings in the upper portion of the vagina so like the beginning of the vagina. I would ask your girlfriend what she likes. When in doubt, try for clitoral stimulation. And start with one finger before adding anymore. It's important she is wet like the other poster said. Don't just put in two fingers without asking your girlfriend if it's ok or before getting her ready for that with one finger.

Practice by masturbating and seeing what feels best to you. That way you can try the same things on your girlfriend.

I think it's normal to orgasm before someone touches you if you're really attracted to her and you're making out. It is hard to control your body's reactions. Don't worry too much because as girls, we don't have the whole boner thing going on to where other people can tell we are excited.

Having to change pants is embarrassing. I felt so bad, is squirting awful? It's embarrassing. I feel abnormal most people needs to be touched I can think about then I'm wet as a fountain. I don't masturbate really I feel like God can see me. I guess it's okay to find out how everything works too.

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Here's a NSFW, helpful guide from the people of Autostraddle that I wish I'd had years ago:

Autostraddle — How to Have Lesbian Sex Tips from NSFW Sunday

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Having to change pants is embarrassing. I felt so bad, is squirting awful? It's embarrassing. I feel abnormal most people needs to be touched I can think about then I'm wet as a fountain. I don't masturbate really I feel like God can see me. I guess it's okay to find out how everything works too.

Don't feel bad, squirting or being wet is not anything to be embarrassed about. It's totally normal. In fact, I think some of the times when I have been most excited were when I was making out with a girl and the anticipation of something that could possibly happen. The moments before sex are often more exciting then the sex itself. I don't mean that sex isn't good....I just mean that (especially if this is your first time) it is totally normal to be really exciting before she touches you. Your lips are a big errogenous zone. So kissing does a lot to a person.

I understand that sometimes masturbation is difficult for some people. I've masturbated since a young age. Don't worry too much because you are both going to be equally as worried. Good communication is key.

[Anonymous]

Soo, um how do I like, Ugh how to word this....How do I make the person I am with comfortable enough to try new things?