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Anonymous · 17th Jan 2012, 01:45 AM

Okay,so ive been with th e same girl for a little over a year and a half and i love her and she loves me.in fact,we're in love..and a month or so ago,idk why but i told this other girl that was a ex of mine that i like her.idk why i did but just now,the guilt is washing over me.i forgot i did it for awhiel till now and ive been sitting here wondering why i did it..i mean 1-i think its wrong cuz i love my girl and only have eyes for her and 2-when i think bout it,i dont even like her anymore..i just saw her a few days ago for the first time in over ay r and texted her tellin her i like her.ik onyl i can make my decisions but wat do u think i should do?i dont want to tell my girl cuz i know her,shell probally leave me so im thinkin bout tryin to overcome my guilt and just let it be in my past and never do such a thing liek that ever again.

Anonymous · 17th Jan 2012, 02:02 AM

If you are feeling guilty because you have a crush on a girl when you are in love with another then... Stop feeling guilty! It's ok to crush! Me and my girlfriend compare girls we like! Just don't get involved with the other girl.

Anonymous · 17th Jan 2012, 02:05 AM

but im not liek that.im dedicated.andshe is too.she doesnt liek anyone else.idk what to do.

Ghostly · 17th Jan 2012, 02:55 AM

I guess then you should just pretend it never happened, that way no one will get hurt and make sure you dont do anything with the other girl

**Lexington** · 17th Jan 2012, 10:00 AM

I guess the question is - what do you want to happen?

>>>onyl i can make my decisions but wat do u think i should do?

Do you enjoy having the temptation there? If not, delete the number of your ex out of your phone, and maybe put a block on the number. If you don't feel compelled to do that, because maybe you'll want to do it again, well, I guess there's your answer.

Lex

Anonymous · 19th Jan 2012, 01:56 AM

i told my girl and she took it well.shes hurt..she hasnt doen the smaeb ut shes hurt.i mean u learn from the past so ima learn from this and never do anything again

17th Jan 2012, 01:45 AM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	i feel guilty Okay,so ive been with th e same girl for a little over a year and a half and i love her and she loves me.in fact,we're in love..and a month or so ago,idk why but i told this other girl that was a ex of mine that i like her.idk why i did but just now,the guilt is washing over me.i forgot i did it for awhiel till now and ive been sitting here wondering why i did it..i mean 1-i think its wrong cuz i love my girl and only have eyes for her and 2-when i think bout it,i dont even like her anymore..i just saw her a few days ago for the first time in over ay r and texted her tellin her i like her.ik onyl i can make my decisions but wat do u think i should do?i dont want to tell my girl cuz i know her,shell probally leave me so im thinkin bout tryin to overcome my guilt and just let it be in my past and never do such a thing liek that ever again.

17th Jan 2012, 02:05 AM	#3
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: i feel guilty but im not liek that.im dedicated.andshe is too.she doesnt liek anyone else.idk what to do.

17th Jan 2012, 02:55 AM	#4
Ghostly привет Full Member Gender: Un Garçon Orientation: I'm committed to this one guy Out Status: people that care for me Location: Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,305 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: i feel guilty I guess then you should just pretend it never happened, that way no one will get hurt and make sure you dont do anything with the other girl __________________ "Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark; and as that natural fear in children is increased by tales, so is the other" -Sir Francis Bacon

17th Jan 2012, 10:00 AM	#5
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,360 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: i feel guilty I guess the question is - what do you want to happen? >>>onyl i can make my decisions but wat do u think i should do? Do you enjoy having the temptation there? If not, delete the number of your ex out of your phone, and maybe put a block on the number. If you don't feel compelled to do that, because maybe you'll want to do it again, well, I guess there's your answer. Lex

19th Jan 2012, 01:56 AM	#6
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: i feel guilty i told my girl and she took it well.shes hurt..she hasnt doen the smaeb ut shes hurt.i mean u learn from the past so ima learn from this and never do anything again

17th Jan 2012, 02:02 AM	#2
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	If you are feeling guilty because you have a crush on a girl when you are in love with another then... Stop feeling guilty! It's ok to crush! Me and my girlfriend compare girls we like! Just don't get involved with the other girl.

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