Anal Sex pain

[Anonymous]

Hey there everyone. I am relatively new to being a bottom. I really enjoy it a lot. I love being submissive. I love having a guy look down at me with total ecstasy on his face and knowing that I'm the one who put that smile there. Spending so many years as an exclusive top, makes it even better, knowing exactly what he's feeling when we're together.

My one issue is the pain i feel when he hits what I think is my prostate. I have only read that the hitting of the prostate should be an enjoyable experience, but when he goes in too deep I feel a tenderness and what I perceive as pain in my stomach area. It is only on direct contact and there is no lasting sensation once he moves out a little less deep. Also its not a pain so much that it makes me want to stop, it just makes me not want him in me so deep. Could this signal a problem with my prostate gland? How do I know if it is "Pain" or just a sensation I'm not used too?

[KaraBulut]

Prostate pain isn't typically felt in the stomach. Most guys describe prostate pain as radiating to their scrotum/anus or that it makes them feel like they need to pee.

[JohnnyBoy]

Im NOT a doctor!

I was never a bottom until my current boyfriend and I started dating. We agreed that we didn't want to be exclusive to one position. I can tell you it may hurt at first and might continue. The idea is to start slow...and I mean VERRRY SLOW, to the point where it might seem like super slow motion. I've gotten used to it and enjoy switching roles more often and we've begun experimenting with different positions too now that we're both comfortable.

Also, use lots and lots of lube. This will help a lot. For me, I still have to start very very slow but once I get going I can handle it a lot better and it makes my eyes roll into the back of my head

I still have issues with switching positions, I can't handle having him pull out to switch positions so we have to get creative to keep it in, which is also pretty fun. Its like when he pulls out my natural muscles tense up again to keep it out and have trouble getting relaxed again. Maybe I should start my own thread but does anyone else experience that?

OP, feel free to PM me if you want more help!

[Ridiculous]

I don't think it is the prostate either. It sounds like the feeling I get when the 'back' of the rectum is hit. See this thread and accompanying anatomy images: http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/he...s-anatomy.html

[toremi]

About a month ago I was convinced I was gonna give this ago.

I must say this is all a bit much to take in :S

I think I am beginning to understand the receptive end of sex a bit better now that I am considering that position and I understand why it's a bit scary at first

[Anonymous]

Thanks Ridiculous...that picture actually really helped me understand whats going on...