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Old 19th Jan 2012, 09:33 PM   #1
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I'm with someone but not in a relationship with them. We were in a relationship but broke up and now its WAY less stressful and I'm liking it. We kiss and hold hands and still have that emotional connection and don't date other people still. We just have no title now. I'm enjoying it.

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Old 19th Jan 2012, 09:39 PM   #2
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honestly, i don't think it's bad at all for now...but let's say eventually, one person is starting to look somewhere else for emotional fulfillment... it can get a bit murky. in time, you'll probably want to draw some parameters just for both of you to have boundaries that help you feel safe.
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Old 20th Jan 2012, 08:13 AM   #3
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I don't think it's wrong or bad, but to me, a relationship isn't in the words but in the actions.

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Old 20th Jan 2012, 11:26 AM   #4
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Thanks guys, that's really helpful! (:
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