how to let your guy know when you are ready to finish

[Anonymous]

so this may sound a little weird, but for guys who are into other guys, do you tell your partner when you are about to finish so that you can finish together during sex?

[Sunsetting]

yes, it's not odd at all

[KaraBulut]

Are you asking "Do you?" or are you asking "How do you?"...

[Anonymous]

Op here, I guess I am asking both "how do you" and "do you".

[Lexington]

Yes, I do. I usually just say "I'm almost there". If he's being a bit...enthusiastic, I might just withdraw a bit to give me a chance to calm down a bit. I prefer to get my partner off first.

Lex

[JohnnyBoy]

For oral, the moans normally get a little louder and I tug on his hair a lil bit...anal, we can normally tell

[TheEdend]

Like, to synchronize them? Not really, no. You can usually tell by their body language when the other person is going to finish, though. Every so often we do finish at the same time and its pretty cool when it does happen, but I have never tried to do it on purpose.

As to how to do it, just let them know that you are close and, like lex said, slow down, change positions or make out for a bit. If you want to do it at the same time then I guess you could concentrate on the person who is the farthest and then resume once he catches up a bit.

Its all about communication, though. Talk to your partner about what you want to happen and luckily he agrees to give it a shot

[crazyhead]

I don't try to finnish at the same time. I just hold it as long as I can and then go. It's cool when we go at the same time. But I still usually say something before, just in case he wanted to stop and kinda just to be polite. We normally finnish each other off one at a time.
For the, "how do you?" I guess I say something like, "I'm about to..." well you know. For whenever there's time to stop if he wanted me to wait for him. Or last longer. And I say, "I'm..." you know, "...ing" when it's too late to stop. In my experience, it's fairly intuitive.