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Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 12:20 AM

How can you tell if a girl might like you? This girl I've hung out with twice kept laughing and was leaning towards me a lot. When someone makes a joke she leans her head toward me if that makes sense.

Instead of leaving right away she stayed in my car for like an hour just talking with me. And when I said we should hang out again soon she wanted me to tell her exactly when I could hang out and to text her. She gave me a hug when leaving and it felt like it lasted longer than most hugs.

Tiny Catastrophe · 27th Jan 2012, 02:44 AM

Well I've never really been good at reading signs like that and stuff but to me it sounds like she may be interested in you. I'm going to assume you're female? If so, do you know if the girl is into girls?

Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 04:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Tiny Catastrophe

Well I've never really been good at reading signs like that and stuff but to me it sounds like she may be interested in you. I'm going to assume you're female? If so, do you know if the girl is into girls?

I'm female and yeah she is definitely either bi-sexual or gay. I'm pretty sure she's gay though. She told me she dated girls and she got a rainbow ring, etc. She said she isn't straight.

Tiny Catastrophe · 27th Jan 2012, 04:04 AM

To me it seems like she may be interested in you. Hang out with her more and see what happens.

Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Tiny Catastrophe

To me it seems like she may be interested in you. Hang out with her more and see what happens.

Thanks. When we were standing (talking to other people) she stood pretty close to me. She did that a lot. She kind of faced her body toward me and sat really close to me when we were sitting as well. I usually get really creeped out and uncomfortable if someone stands close to me but I kind of liked it and it felt natural, like it wasn't weird for her to be in my space.

She was fidgeting with her hands a lot in the car and she was completely facing me for a while.

**Lexington** · 27th Jan 2012, 06:35 AM

Now the big question - does SHE know that YOU are into girls?

Lex

Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexington

Now the big question - does SHE know that YOU are into girls?

Lex

OP. Yeah she does (unless she didn't pay attention to clues). My friends called me a lesbian several times and I talked about how I like lesbian romance stories and how I don't put my preference on facebook where my family can see it. I never said "I'm gay" but I made it pretty obvious. I think everyone (because of my friends) knew that I'm gay. She knows that I'm either bi-sexual or gay. I gave her my number and I hope she knows.

silverhalo · 27th Jan 2012, 03:51 PM

Just keep hanging out with her, or name some female celebrity you are crushing on. You could tell her you love hanging out with her, if that is true.

27th Jan 2012, 12:20 AM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	How do you know if a girl likes you? How can you tell if a girl might like you? This girl I've hung out with twice kept laughing and was leaning towards me a lot. When someone makes a joke she leans her head toward me if that makes sense. Instead of leaving right away she stayed in my car for like an hour just talking with me. And when I said we should hang out again soon she wanted me to tell her exactly when I could hang out and to text her. She gave me a hug when leaving and it felt like it lasted longer than most hugs.

27th Jan 2012, 02:44 AM	#2
Tiny Catastrophe Love is genderless <3 Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: 2 sisters, mom, friends, school Location: New Yorkish Age: 19 Posts: 862 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: How do you know if a girl likes you? Well I've never really been good at reading signs like that and stuff but to me it sounds like she may be interested in you. I'm going to assume you're female? If so, do you know if the girl is into girls? __________________ Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there. Because you cant remember a time in your life when it wasnt but then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong, only because its so unfamiliar. Then in that moment you realize you're happy.

27th Jan 2012, 04:04 AM	#4
Tiny Catastrophe Love is genderless <3 Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: 2 sisters, mom, friends, school Location: New Yorkish Age: 19 Posts: 862 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: How do you know if a girl likes you? To me it seems like she may be interested in you. Hang out with her more and see what happens. __________________ Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there. Because you cant remember a time in your life when it wasnt but then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong, only because its so unfamiliar. Then in that moment you realize you're happy.

27th Jan 2012, 06:35 AM	#6
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,361 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: How do you know if a girl likes you? Now the big question - does SHE know that YOU are into girls? Lex

27th Jan 2012, 03:51 PM	#8
silverhalo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few Location: England, Age: 29 Posts: 3,129 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: How do you know if a girl likes you? Just keep hanging out with her, or name some female celebrity you are crushing on. You could tell her you love hanging out with her, if that is true.

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