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Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 06:52 PM

Is being a flat chested female embarrasing to anyone else?

(Awkward...)

Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 08:39 PM

i am a guy and when i had gf, i dated them and they were flatchested and i didnt care. i liked them for them. girls will think the same about you..

Zontar · 27th Jan 2012, 09:14 PM

Flat-chested chicks are hot.

Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 09:32 PM

Sweetheart, flaunt it.

Why?

Because I WISH I was flat-chested.

P.S. I’m a dude. LOL

Chouchou · 27th Jan 2012, 09:40 PM

Don't be. You shouldn't be ashamed of something you have no control over, like your genes. Besides, many people find flat-chested girls attractive, and many also don't care about what a girl looks like.

Random Dent · 27th Jan 2012, 10:04 PM

Don't be ashamed of yourself! I am (kinda) flat too (I'm an A-cup). On hand I wish I had bigger boobs (at least a full B)... but on the other I am so glad they're as small as they are because I can wear cute tops and not have to worry about my breasts spilling out.
I like women with small breasts, personally...heh.

midwestgirl89 · 27th Jan 2012, 10:37 PM

I'm not really flat-chested but I don't have big boobs either. But don't worry, you don't have to have big boobs to be attractive. I don't care if a person is flat-chested. It's totally ok. If I'm attracted to her, it's about her personality and her smile, eyes, and laughter. Don't worry too much and just realize that you're good enough the way you are.

Sunsetting · 27th Jan 2012, 10:42 PM

i was just looking at this girl this week and said wow she is very plainly beautiful, then she started re-arranging her top somehow and i realized, wow, she is 'flat chested' and you know what... i just didn't care one lick. she was just beautiful. so sister, you have absolutely NOTHING wrong with you at all... a beautiful personality makes a person beautiful!!!

Anonymous · 27th Jan 2012, 11:54 PM

Ugh, I WISH I was flat-chested.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 28th Jan 2012, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous

Ugh, I WISH I was flat-chested.

This, exactly.

As a side note, nobody is ever happy with what they have

I've always be quite plumpy (when not fat) and I always have quite a big breast. That is something I've never been completely comfortable with.
A few years ago, I was doing some shopping with one of my good friend. She is a gorgeous woman, my complete opposite, long and extremely thing with natural red-hair and beautiful green eyes. So I was in the changing room, fulminating because the dress I was trying didn't fit (once again) because I had too much of everything, especially breast... Then I heard my friend starting to sob in the next changing room. I rushed there half dressed, and found my friend in tears, because all the dresses she had been trying (in the smallest size) didn't fit. They were making "a pouch" on the front because her breast was too small to fill them. So my friend was there, crying, saying she will never look like a real woman, and here, I realize that everybody is unhappy and insecure about how they look. Where I was seeing a gorgeous woman, she was feeling insecure about her femininity. I was fulminating because I had too much breast, hips, thighs and buttock, and she was depressed for not having enough of these. Unfortunately, I couldn't trade her any of mine, but this experience really opened my eyes about the fact we're all human beings and all insecure in the same way about our bodies : too round, too thin, too long, too small, too old... We all see our imperfection much bigger than they are, when in the eyes of the people who loves us, we're perfect as we are.

Take care,

Cécile

28th Jan 2012, 03:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Zontar

Flat-chested chicks are hot.

This!

My own breasts are A-cup and I'm glad they're like that - anything bigger seems a bit uncomfortable to me.

Queeran · 28th Jan 2012, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Eleanor Rigby

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anonymous

Ugh, I WISH I was flat-chested.

This, exactly.

As a side note, nobody is ever happy with what they have

Agreed, completely.
I kind of equate this to curly vs. straight hair.
Many people who have curly hair want straight hair and vice versa.
We all find flaws in our appearance (no matter how much some people try to hide it), and it's okay. But it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Rather than being embarrassed, try to embrace the fact that you're flat-chested. So many people would do anything to be in your position, myself included. Just think, you don't have to hold your breasts while running up or down the stairs to avoid them from hurting!

Anonymous · 28th Jan 2012, 03:10 PM

look at all the models on the runway and mag covers. the do not have big breasts.

Anonymous · 28th Jan 2012, 04:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zontar

Flat-chested chicks are hot.

I'd have to agree on that one.

thecat06 · 28th Jan 2012, 09:27 PM

I would have to agree that flat chested chicks are pretty hot.

Sheyceli · 29th Jan 2012, 01:10 PM

I have larger breasts and to be honest, I wish I was flat-chested. I also find girls with flat chests to be more attractive. I wouldn't worry about it, if I were you.

Anonymous · 29th Jan 2012, 03:21 PM

Women with big breasts tend to end up with back problems, so your actually lucky.
I think woman worry about breast size like men worry about penis size, but in the end it should just be about the person themselves. Don't worry, I can guarantee that you are beautiful person

Noir · 29th Jan 2012, 07:24 PM

I actually have a pretty flat chest, so do my sis and mother, and my Dad actually preferred it that way.

The girl I like also says that having a big chest can cause back problems and with time they sag, lol--she thinks I'm pretty sexy just the way I am, so I think it's all good! I don't worry about it anymore.

Anonymous · 30th Jan 2012, 04:43 AM

I personally just don't factor boob size into the equation when looking at girls. Sure they make good pillows, but otherwise I don't care if you're flat chested or any other way.

Anonymous · 30th Jan 2012, 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anonymous

I personally just don't factor boob size into the equation when looking at girls. Sure they make good pillows, but otherwise I don't care if you're flat chested or any other way.

OP here:

Ha ha, good pillows is right....

Thank you all, this is making me feel better.

27th Jan 2012, 06:52 PM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Flat chested and embarrased... Is being a flat chested female embarrasing to anyone else? (Awkward...)

27th Jan 2012, 08:39 PM	#2
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... i am a guy and when i had gf, i dated them and they were flatchested and i didnt care. i liked them for them. girls will think the same about you..

27th Jan 2012, 09:14 PM	#3
Zontar Mister Funny Man Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,507 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... Flat-chested chicks are hot. __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

27th Jan 2012, 09:32 PM	#4
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... Sweetheart, flaunt it. Why? Because I WISH I was flat-chested. P.S. I’m a dude. LOL

27th Jan 2012, 09:40 PM	#5
Chouchou Warrior Goddess Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Homosexual (asexual?) and mostly homoromantic Out Status: To some friends, but not to family Location: Wisconsin, USA Age: 26 Posts: 1,101 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... Don't be. You shouldn't be ashamed of something you have no control over, like your genes. Besides, many people find flat-chested girls attractive, and many also don't care about what a girl looks like. __________________ "The good neighbor looks beyond the external accidents and discerns those inner qualities that make all men human and, therefore, brothers." -- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

27th Jan 2012, 10:04 PM	#6
Random Dent Liebe ist für alle da! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: La la la ladies Out Status: I don't care who knows Location: California Age: 27 Posts: 1,689 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... Don't be ashamed of yourself! I am (kinda) flat too (I'm an A-cup). On hand I wish I had bigger boobs (at least a full B)... but on the other I am so glad they're as small as they are because I can wear cute tops and not have to worry about my breasts spilling out. I like women with small breasts, personally...heh. __________________ No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody Rita Mae Brown

27th Jan 2012, 10:37 PM	#7
midwestgirl89 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Interested in Women Out Status: Some people Age: 23 Posts: 543 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... I'm not really flat-chested but I don't have big boobs either. But don't worry, you don't have to have big boobs to be attractive. I don't care if a person is flat-chested. It's totally ok. If I'm attracted to her, it's about her personality and her smile, eyes, and laughter. Don't worry too much and just realize that you're good enough the way you are.

27th Jan 2012, 10:42 PM	#8
Sunsetting Banned Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: bi, straight, gay Out Status: to some family and friends Location: New York Age: 42 Posts: 950 Join Date: Dec 2011	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... i was just looking at this girl this week and said wow she is very plainly beautiful, then she started re-arranging her top somehow and i realized, wow, she is 'flat chested' and you know what... i just didn't care one lick. she was just beautiful. so sister, you have absolutely NOTHING wrong with you at all... a beautiful personality makes a person beautiful!!!

27th Jan 2012, 11:54 PM	#9
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... Ugh, I WISH I was flat-chested.

28th Jan 2012, 03:10 PM	#13
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... look at all the models on the runway and mag covers. the do not have big breasts.

28th Jan 2012, 09:27 PM	#15
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29th Jan 2012, 01:10 PM	#16
Sheyceli lieks Mudkipz Full Member Gender: physically female Orientation: homoromantic asexual Out Status: one friend Location: Michigan Age: 16 Posts: 541 Join Date: Mar 2011	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... I have larger breasts and to be honest, I wish I was flat-chested. I also find girls with flat chests to be more attractive. I wouldn't worry about it, if I were you. __________________ "Special doesn't have many kids, so the class is very close. The family feeling is greater here than anywhere else. They call us "weirdos" and "trash", but that doesn't mean anything. Don't struggle to keep up a facade for rankings or fitting in. Just live your life to the fullest!" -T. A.

29th Jan 2012, 03:21 PM	#17
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... Women with big breasts tend to end up with back problems, so your actually lucky. I think woman worry about breast size like men worry about penis size, but in the end it should just be about the person themselves. Don't worry, I can guarantee that you are beautiful person

29th Jan 2012, 07:24 PM	#18
Noir EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: A select few Location: Missing Age: 18 Posts: 360 Join Date: Aug 2011	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... I actually have a pretty flat chest, so do my sis and mother, and my Dad actually preferred it that way. The girl I like also says that having a big chest can cause back problems and with time they sag, lol--she thinks I'm pretty sexy just the way I am, so I think it's all good! I don't worry about it anymore. __________________ The opposite of love isn't hate--it's indifference.

30th Jan 2012, 04:43 AM	#19
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Flat chested and embarrased... I personally just don't factor boob size into the equation when looking at girls. Sure they make good pillows, but otherwise I don't care if you're flat chested or any other way.