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Anonymous · 28th Jan 2012, 04:39 PM

I'm attracted to girls but I think I wanna be them more than i'm attracted to them.
I am not into guys but I would like to be intimate with a guy if I was a girl but I have a mental blanket that stops me from thinking about it too much (if a guy was grinding my side at a club or something I would be grossed out). I believe i'm the submissive type and would rather take it but only if I was a girl, as a guy I have little desire to give (unless it was with a pregnant girl?).

Theres more too it and its much more confusing than what I typed down, i'm horrible at trying to explain most things.

I don't even know what to ask or think about.

Ianthe · 28th Jan 2012, 07:01 PM

It sounds like you are questioning your gender as well as your sexuality--do you think that's the case?

Anonymous · 29th Jan 2012, 02:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ianthe

It sounds like you are questioning your gender as well as your sexuality--do you think that's the case?

I'm 90% sure i'm m2f (in a less common way) but in terms of my sexuality its a bit jumbled.

28th Jan 2012, 04:39 PM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 34,191 Join Date: Dec 2007	Questoning My Sexuality? I'm attracted to girls but I think I wanna be them more than i'm attracted to them. I am not into guys but I would like to be intimate with a guy if I was a girl but I have a mental blanket that stops me from thinking about it too much (if a guy was grinding my side at a club or something I would be grossed out). I believe i'm the submissive type and would rather take it but only if I was a girl, as a guy I have little desire to give (unless it was with a pregnant girl?). Theres more too it and its much more confusing than what I typed down, i'm horrible at trying to explain most things. I don't even know what to ask or think about.

28th Jan 2012, 07:01 PM	#2
Ianthe EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 32 Posts: 1,055 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: Questoning My Sexuality? It sounds like you are questioning your gender as well as your sexuality--do you think that's the case?

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