I can't imagine myself in a relationship at all

[Anonymous]

Basically lately I've been noticing a kind of weird thought cycle thats been going around in my head. I'm out to my parents and my important friends as lesbian but lately I don't know if thats right. Let me be clear though, I'm not attracted to men now, its basically that I haven't been physically or emotionally attracted to anyone, guy or girl. I've warmed up to the idea of being with a guy but I would say it's still not high on my to do list, so to speak haha. I was in a brief relationship but it was a disaster because I'm pretty much emotionally unavailable and in a very short period of time I didn't even want to kiss her. I don't know if it was just her or if it was just how I am but honestly, knowing myself, I'm leaning towards the latter. I'm just really frustrated because part of me wants to be in a relationship but in real life I'm disinterested. I feel like there's something wrong with me. Any advice??

[Anonymous]

No advice, I'm afraid, because I'm currently having roughly the same feelings as you are, and don't really know how to deal with them either. There's nothing wrong with you, by the way.

[Sunsetting]

i have found that i have to start opening up a little more just because i need to be closer in some of my friendships. however, i don't feel compelled towards a romantic relationship either right now. one of the things i'm doing real soon is talking with a counselor about how anxious i can be and how inadequate i feel about myself a lot of the time. i think my feelings are leading me wrong big time and i don't want them to lead my life anymore. i don't know if this applies to you, but thanks for sharing what's up. i appreciate it and do understand.

[Lexington]

If you have no interest right now, that's fine. Stick with "single", and focus on other aspects of your life. Maybe things will change.

Lex