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Old 26th Feb 2012, 09:46 AM   #1
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Default I think im going to lose my job

Look i had breakdown last year over a rumor that i was whoring myself out on my second job and yes im not comortable with being gay but loved having the attention of that many guys. Since had no one ttalk to i told my best friend which is mother and sister but my sister told people now.......very drepressed
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Old 26th Feb 2012, 12:16 PM   #2
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Sorry to hear you're depressed, but I have almost no idea what it is that you're trying to say in this post.
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Old 26th Feb 2012, 12:46 PM   #3
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Let me see if I understand.

You apparently slept around a fair chunk (or at least flirted an awful lot) last year. And the people at your job found out, and apparently they made life hellish for you. You decided to talk to your best friend about it, and unfortunately, the story went further from there. Although I'm not sure if that means word got back to your OTHER job, since presumably, you already suggested that people at your (second) job were giving you grief about it.

Based solely on this, I'd say the smart move is to own it. "Yeah, when I first realized I was gay, I flirted an awful lot. I really liked the attention. But I realize now that that wasn't the best way to go about things." People tend not to give grief to people who don't seem fazed by things.

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Old 26th Feb 2012, 03:05 PM   #4
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Hi there! I think Lex hit on an important point. If you own up to it/admitting it also to yourself, people will appreciate it, and people might stop giving you a hard time about it.

Another thing to think about is, if you find it too hard at your current job, try to find another job, where no one knows it, and start with a blank slate. It might also help you in feeling less depressed about the whole thing and being able to leave it all behind you.
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