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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:06 PM   #1
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Default Do gay men ever feel this way?

This might be a stupid question and this is the reason i posted this anonymous. OK when i was realizing that I was gay and saw two people kissing that were the opposite sex I would turned on by it but I was seeing myself as the woman in the relationship being kissed by the man.
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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:16 PM   #2
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Definately not weird at all.
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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:22 PM   #3
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Definately not weird at all.
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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:32 PM   #4
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lol...thats one of my major turnons. especially when they're emo <3
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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:36 PM   #5
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I am a lesbian. I grew up wishing I was in the man's position kissing the women in movies or on tv shows. Not weird at all.
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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:44 PM   #6
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I know what you mean... Wishing to be in one of the positions like that. I think it's perfectly fine to do that. There's nothing wrong with wanting to change your gender... Even if it was just for a moment.
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Old 20th Jul 2012, 10:46 PM   #7
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I know what you mean... Wishing to be in one of the positions like that. I think it's perfectly fine to do that. There's nothing wrong with wanting to change your gender... Even if it was just for a moment.
Yeah I have no desire to be a woman but I can admit it would make a life a lot easier.
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Old 21st Jul 2012, 03:30 AM   #8
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yeah not weird at all i get drunk and want everyone to start kissing lol. (no seriously i try to get everyone whose willing to kiss someone.) its a major turn on :P
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I am a lesbian. I grew up wishing I was in the man's position kissing the women in movies or on tv shows. Not weird at all.
I always found myself doing thinking this. Even from a young age watching tv programs, I never thought about it in a sexual way just that I wanted to be the one with the women in the place of the guy.

So no not weird at all, it seems a lot of people have felt this way.
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Old 21st Jul 2012, 07:19 AM   #10
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It makes total sense to me. If you were in the man's shoes, you'd be kissing a woman...which, since you're gay, isn't something that turns you on really. If you were in the woman's shoes, you'd be kissing a man...and that's something that DOES turn you on.

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l am a lady but l see myself as the man all the time.
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Good thread.

Whenever I see a straight couple kissing, I usually find myself focusing on the woman and her reactions to it whilst envying her position, so whilst it's not specifically the same thing, it is similar.

So I'll say yes, I definitely feel this way.
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Old 21st Jul 2012, 09:40 AM   #13
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You're probably not seeing yourself as a woman as much as seeing yourself as the person in front of that hot guy and kissing him
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Lol, it's kinda funny... since I busted out of the closet at full speed I haven't noticed women. I dunno if my libido is just making up for lost time, but all the time I'm thinking, "hmmm, he's cute" or "wow, he's gorgeous" or "I would so [EXPLETIVE DELETED] that guy." When I see a straight couple, I always imagine myself in the woman's position.
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