Am I Gay or Bi? - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out

Anonymous · 29th Jul 2012, 11:57 AM

Hey everyone, so a few months ago I started to realize that i've had feelings for guys my entire life, and I started to question if I was straight or not. I know I'm not straight, but im not sure if im gay or bi. So, im for sure sexually attracted to guys and think about, you know, doing stuff. The only thing is, I think some girls can be really hot, but i would never have sex with them. I find certain aspects about a woman attractive, like their personality or stuff like that, but I think that having sex with a woman would be really wierd. I forgot to say that I'm a guy, so yeah. Do you think I'm gay, bi, or homoflexible?

Lance · 29th Jul 2012, 01:05 PM

Going by that you sound more gay than bi. Bisexuals tend to enjoy sex and relationships with both genders. You seem pretty set on one. It's fine and normal to think certain people of the opposite sex are good looking even if you're gay.

Dolphinkid · 29th Jul 2012, 01:20 PM

Well, that depends,and my good sir, if you've had any crushes and the like, on a female. The whole sex thing might be age, idk, for I'm just a bi teen mysllf. It could also depend onn you r sex drive, I think.
Well I'mstill figuring theses things out but you might just more intersted in guys than girls. Bisexuality isn't always 50 50 you could be 95 05 or 85 15, if you get what I mean, but really it all depends on you.
P.s. this place is called empty closet, you don't need to be anonymous. Lol, no offense intended.

29th Jul 2012, 11:57 AM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 50,978 Join Date: Dec 2007	Am I Gay or Bi? Hey everyone, so a few months ago I started to realize that i've had feelings for guys my entire life, and I started to question if I was straight or not. I know I'm not straight, but im not sure if im gay or bi. So, im for sure sexually attracted to guys and think about, you know, doing stuff. The only thing is, I think some girls can be really hot, but i would never have sex with them. I find certain aspects about a woman attractive, like their personality or stuff like that, but I think that having sex with a woman would be really wierd. I forgot to say that I'm a guy, so yeah. Do you think I'm gay, bi, or homoflexible?

29th Jul 2012, 01:05 PM	#2
Lance So gay I can't even drive straight! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Completely Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 25 Posts: 2,079 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Am I Gay or Bi? Going by that you sound more gay than bi. Bisexuals tend to enjoy sex and relationships with both genders. You seem pretty set on one. It's fine and normal to think certain people of the opposite sex are good looking even if you're gay.

29th Jul 2012, 01:20 PM	#3
Dolphinkid Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: uh, what? my friends know and my mom doesnt approv Location: San Juan Posts: 171 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Am I Gay or Bi? Well, that depends,and my good sir, if you've had any crushes and the like, on a female. The whole sex thing might be age, idk, for I'm just a bi teen mysllf. It could also depend onn you r sex drive, I think. Well I'mstill figuring theses things out but you might just more intersted in guys than girls. Bisexuality isn't always 50 50 you could be 95 05 or 85 15, if you get what I mean, but really it all depends on you. P.s. this place is called empty closet, you don't need to be anonymous. Lol, no offense intended.