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Anonymous · 29th Jul 2012, 06:37 PM

I know this is probably so innapropriate, But I have to ask.

Does anyone know where to order any Adult toys, but have them ship anonymously so they arent described on the package. I live with other people and would rather them not know

Anonymous · 29th Jul 2012, 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anonymous

I know this is probably so innapropriate, But I have to ask.

Does anyone know where to order any Adult toys, but have them ship anonymously so they arent described on the package. I live with other people and would rather them not know

If you have a post office box its a better idea to just send it there.

julia · 29th Jul 2012, 07:08 PM

These sites can ship the toys to you discreetly.

Lustful Desire - Explore Yours
Blowfish: Expert Advice and Great Prices on Sex Toys, Vibrators, Adult Videos, Lube
Adam & Eve Adult Store - Shop Erotic Sex Toys and Adult Novelties

**Chip** · 29th Jul 2012, 07:10 PM

Pretty much anywhere you order from is going to send the materials discreetly. It's hard to find the large pink penis-shaped shipping boxes these days, so most places have switched to the plain brown cardboard

But in all seriousness, Amazon and lots of other places have a great selection and ship discreetly, and nobody lists contents of anything on the box exterior these days, if for no other reason than to deter theft during shipment.

Anonymous · 29th Jul 2012, 09:16 PM

Thank you. I just know the last package I ordered has the contents itemized on outer packing slip, So it made me worried haha.

PicketFences · 30th Jul 2012, 03:55 AM

Basically any websites of that nature will package things discretely, if you really want to make sure the really good sites often describe how things will be packaged in FAQ's.

Gen · 30th Jul 2012, 11:07 AM

Amazon is actually a good idea. I do alot of my online shopping from amazon and the ship everything in the same cardboard box with amazon on the side. You cant even see the contents unless you open it because its not listed.

Paul_UK · 30th Jul 2012, 02:39 PM

The only reason the contents would need to be listed on the outside is if it's being shipped from another country and a customs declaration is needed. For example if someone in the UK had something shipped from outside the EU.

If you use a company in the same country as you, and they state that they ship from within your country, you should be fine.

I like the Amazon suggestion. People buy all sorts of stuff from them and that name on a package wouldn't arouse suspicion.

Anonymous · 30th Jul 2012, 03:50 PM

Sorry to hijack the thread, but since we're on the subject I've been wondering,...if one does have an adult toy, as a man, what do you do to keep it clean after using it?

I know this sounds either like a stupid or obvious question but I've never used one so I honestly don't know and were I to get one, I'd like to know what to do since I still live at home currently.

Bree · 30th Jul 2012, 04:19 PM

I just use soap and hot water, immediately after use.

**Gravity** · 30th Jul 2012, 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PicketFences

Basically any websites of that nature will package things discretely, if you really want to make sure the really good sites often describe how things will be packaged in FAQ's.

This is pretty much the case. Almost no site will identify itself on its packaging - the vast majority of customers are in your situation, OP, for one reason or another. If they don't specify on their site how things are packed, then order from somewhere else. If you really need to buy something from a specific site, then the P.O. Box is a good idea - you can just get one for a month to test the site, they're actually very cheap.

But honestly, if it was me, I would just have it shipped home and not worry about it.

seeksanctuary · 5th Aug 2012, 08:23 PM

Early 2 Bed is very good about being discreet.

Revan · 5th Aug 2012, 08:44 PM

And I believe generally even when it's a residential, it's not like in I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry where boxes are labeled in big XXX lol.

CelticRae · 5th Aug 2012, 08:45 PM

Don't worry most companies that sell and ship sex toys and "novelties" well ship them discreetly. I bought a couple of vibrators from Adam and Eve online and they came in a package that had a fake company name on it. Something like" tristar innovations" or something like that. So you don't have to worry. All the shipping info will be inside the box.

29th Jul 2012, 06:37 PM	#1
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 51,911 Join Date: Dec 2007	Ordering Adult Toys Question I know this is probably so innapropriate, But I have to ask. Does anyone know where to order any Adult toys, but have them ship anonymously so they arent described on the package. I live with other people and would rather them not know

29th Jul 2012, 07:08 PM	#3
julia the road is long, we carry on Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Asexual? Bisexual? Lesbian? Out Status: Immediate family Location: Boston, MA Age: 21 Posts: 1,268 Join Date: Apr 2012	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question These sites can ship the toys to you discreetly. Lustful Desire - Explore Yours Blowfish: Expert Advice and Great Prices on Sex Toys, Vibrators, Adult Videos, Lube Adam & Eve Adult Store - Shop Erotic Sex Toys and Adult Novelties __________________ I hear the birds on the summer breeze, I drive fast, I am alone in the night. Been tryin' hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind.

29th Jul 2012, 07:10 PM	#4
Chip EC Advisor EC Admin Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: northern CA Posts: 8,875 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Pretty much anywhere you order from is going to send the materials discreetly. It's hard to find the large pink penis-shaped shipping boxes these days, so most places have switched to the plain brown cardboard But in all seriousness, Amazon and lots of other places have a great selection and ship discreetly, and nobody lists contents of anything on the box exterior these days, if for no other reason than to deter theft during shipment.

29th Jul 2012, 09:16 PM	#5
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 51,911 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Thank you. I just know the last package I ordered has the contents itemized on outer packing slip, So it made me worried haha.

30th Jul 2012, 03:55 AM	#6
PicketFences Member Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: All but family Location: Dunedin, New Zealand Age: 21 Posts: 66 Join Date: Oct 2011	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Basically any websites of that nature will package things discretely, if you really want to make sure the really good sites often describe how things will be packaged in FAQ's. __________________ "Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind; And therefore is wing'd Cupid painted blind"

30th Jul 2012, 11:07 AM	#7
Gen The Epitome of Psychotic Brilliance Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: My Closet is Made of Glass ( ._.) Location: California Posts: 1,779 Join Date: May 2012	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Amazon is actually a good idea. I do alot of my online shopping from amazon and the ship everything in the same cardboard box with amazon on the side. You cant even see the contents unless you open it because its not listed.

30th Jul 2012, 02:39 PM	#8
Paul_UK Former Empty Closets Admin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Bournemouth, UK Age: 48 Posts: 13,163 Join Date: Nov 2004	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question The only reason the contents would need to be listed on the outside is if it's being shipped from another country and a customs declaration is needed. For example if someone in the UK had something shipped from outside the EU. If you use a company in the same country as you, and they state that they ship from within your country, you should be fine. I like the Amazon suggestion. People buy all sorts of stuff from them and that name on a package wouldn't arouse suspicion. __________________ Paul

30th Jul 2012, 03:50 PM	#9
Anonymous Posting Anonymously Posts: 51,911 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Sorry to hijack the thread, but since we're on the subject I've been wondering,...if one does have an adult toy, as a man, what do you do to keep it clean after using it? I know this sounds either like a stupid or obvious question but I've never used one so I honestly don't know and were I to get one, I'd like to know what to do since I still live at home currently.

30th Jul 2012, 04:19 PM	#10
Bree Homework Avoidance Master Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Grey-romantic pansexual? Out Status: Out to everyone Location: BC, Canada Age: 21 Posts: 945 Join Date: Apr 2012	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question I just use soap and hot water, immediately after use. __________________ "You can't make footprints in the sands of time by sitting on your butt--and who wants to make buttprints in the sands of time?" -Bob Moawad

5th Aug 2012, 08:23 PM	#12
seeksanctuary Weary Traveller Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Pansexual Out Status: Pretty much everyone that matters. Location: USA Age: 25 Posts: 515 Join Date: Sep 2011	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Early 2 Bed is very good about being discreet. __________________ but there's no sense crying over every mistake you just keep on trying 'til you run out of cake...

5th Aug 2012, 08:44 PM	#13
Revan EC Addict Full Member Gender: Dick Orientation: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Windsor, Ontario Age: 25 Posts: 7,653 Join Date: Jun 2005	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question And I believe generally even when it's a residential, it's not like in I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry where boxes are labeled in big XXX lol. __________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? Has she died or something?" - Miranda Priestly. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself.

5th Aug 2012, 08:45 PM	#14
CelticRae Im magic Btches Full Member Gender:* agender/nongender Orientation: Student of Sappho Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Indy Age: 24 Posts: 93 Join Date: Jul 2012	Re: Ordering Adult Toys Question Don't worry most companies that sell and ship sex toys and "novelties" well ship them discreetly. I bought a couple of vibrators from Adam and Eve online and they came in a package that had a fake company name on it. Something like" tristar innovations" or something like that. So you don't have to worry. All the shipping info will be inside the box. __________________ I am not from Your tribe....

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