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Old 6th Aug 2012, 09:24 AM   #1
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Default I don't know if I should be dating her

If I can think of negative things about the girl I'm dating is that bad? I likr her I just don't know if I should be dating her...
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Default Re: I don't know if I should be dating her

I think it is absolutely natural to consider all aspects of a partner, including the negative.
It is just as destructive to only see the good in a person as you put them on a pedestal and that only leads to heartache.
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I think it is absolutely natural to consider all aspects of a partner, including the negative.
It is just as destructive to only see the good in a person as you put them on a pedestal and that only leads to heartache.
What he says ^^

You have to be objective about someone you might be considering investing a lot of time and emotion in. I wouldn't go as far as drawing up a for and against list, but it's healthy to see some fault in people. It would be naive to to otherwise.
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