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Old 25th Feb 2013, 02:15 PM   #1
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I've been masturbating for about a year and a half now, but lately I've been feeling like my techniques are getting boring. Rubbing of the clitoris and insertion of hair brush handles is about all that I've got, and those two techniques are growing old... I can't get anything like toys are vibrators either.
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Old 25th Feb 2013, 02:26 PM   #2
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I'm not a female, but I do have some experience in masturbation for them

As far as regular rubbing goes, have you tried varying speed, frequency, and pressure? They sound like very technical words, but all I'm saying is mix up how you do it. Depending on what feels best at the moment, you could try small, hard circles, looping strokes, barely-touching teases, anything to change up the feeling. I imagine girls get desensitized to the same movements just like guys do, so this should help quite a lot.

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l don't really do toys, l've thought about it. You can take care of it just with clitoral stimulation but it depends on the girl. Some women have more vaginal sensation.

one thing l've found is that shaving the area around the lips and the hood makes things easier and more enjoyable.
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Old 25th Feb 2013, 02:56 PM   #4
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I've been masturbating for about a year and a half now, but lately I've been feeling like my techniques are getting boring. Rubbing of the clitoris and insertion of hair brush handles is about all that I've got, and those two techniques are growing old... I can't get anything like toys are vibrators either.
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Old 25th Feb 2013, 03:18 PM   #5
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3 words: detachable massaging showerhead.
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Old 25th Feb 2013, 04:10 PM   #6
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3 words: detachable massaging showerhead.
GOD yes...this. It will change your life...
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3 words: detachable massaging showerhead.
GOD yes...this. It will change your life...
Showerhead, sink/bathtub faucet, jet in the pool or hot tub...mmmm

I figured out the jet one when I was too young to know what an orgasm was (and too young to remember). If you ever see a little girl holding very still at the edge of the pool or hot tub, the jet bubbling up in front of her, you know what she's doing.
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shower heads!.

those are fucking amazing. its better than having a orgasm just rubbing your clitoris
..its like....i cant even describe it. its like heaven and i dont even believe in heaven.

but thats what i do when my technique gets boring

i've masturbated since i was 9....its sad but hey , thats what helped me educate myself.
i use to use electric massage balls
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Old 25th Feb 2013, 05:36 PM   #9
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GOD yes...this. It will change your life...
Showerhead, sink/bathtub faucet, jet in the pool or hot tub...mmmm

I figured out the jet one when I was too young to know what an orgasm was (and too young to remember). If you ever see a little girl holding very still at the edge of the pool or hot tub, the jet bubbling up in front of her, you know what she's doing.
Um.... Little boys do that too.... Don't ask me how I know...
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Yes shower head! Powerful setting! I can't help but do it every time I shower!
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Old 24th Mar 2013, 11:15 AM   #11
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GOD yes...this. It will change your life...
Showerhead, sink/bathtub faucet, jet in the pool or hot tub...mmmm

I figured out the jet one when I was too young to know what an orgasm was (and too young to remember). If you ever see a little girl holding very still at the edge of the pool or hot tub, the jet bubbling up in front of her, you know what she's doing.
Oh hell yeah. guilty of this one, since I was like, 7.
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Old 24th Mar 2013, 06:41 PM   #12
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i use to use electric massage balls
This. I used to have a little electric massage pillow, you could unzip the pillow and pull out the battery-operated part... it was just like having a vibrator.

I agree about showerheads/faucets/any kind of water, that feels nice. Also, you could try touching yourself through your underwear vs. just being naked, change what position your body is in, maybe get a better angle... stuff like that. Even dreaming up a new fantasy can make masturbation more exciting.
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Old 24th Mar 2013, 07:07 PM   #13
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Um buy an 8 dollar electric toothbrush and remove the brush head. That will work wonders on your clit.
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Put a billow underneath your bottom, spread your legs as far as you can (while still being comfortable). You may use a hot water bottle/heating pad on low setting on the back of your neck it makes a nice sensation. But using two fingers moving them slowly in and out, and other hand rubbing the clitoris you should feel quite good. Vary in speeds and it may help to daydream of an erotic situation. Have fun.
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I find that sensual stimulation is a big turn on for me. I will pick a night when everyone is out, and I will light some candles, turn on some sexy music and even watch myself masturbate by candelight in a mirror. I am a very visual person so watching myself masturbate is a very big turn on for me! Maybe also try changing your fantasies up a bit too. And maybe have a go at G-spot stimulation as well. Have fun
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I am not sure how many fingers you use but you can certainly work at expanding the number and if you flex the wrist properly it boggles the mind what can be accomplished. Then spread the fingers and move in and out. You do this while the other hands fingers stimulate the clitoris. Boigorge makes a good point you can watch yourself in a mirror. It adds to the romance of it. Toys as was mentioned I am not a fan of those either. Good luck love
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Okay, I'm kind of nervous to post this but I will, in the hopes that it might work for you or someone else.

I find that if I masturbate with a full bladder, it makes the sensations so much more intense and pleasurable. I don't do that way every time but sometimes when I feel like going at it and I happen to need to go to the bathroom, I'll just wait lol. So yeah, I'm probably really weird, but whatevs lmao.

Also, have you found your G-spot yet? Many wonderful new possibilities arise when it is included in your masturbatory and other sexual experiences
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Dude...
Showers.
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Old 29th Mar 2013, 06:59 PM   #20
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I like watching me or even video recording myself (erasing the video right after). It's something I wouldn't do with someone else but it's a big turn on for me.
I also like to change positions starting on my back and ending on my stomach (the sensation is better for me), playing with my breasts.
Reading about ages, I'm feeling a late bloomer cause I started at 13/14 because some guys friends of mine asked me if I did it and I had never thought about it.
I found out I'm more responsive to sounds so I like listening to porn (with earplugs) when I do it.
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