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Old 15th Apr 2016, 02:50 PM   #1
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does orgasming via masturbating + vivid female celeb fantasy, mean I'm gay?

sorry pretty tmi: does orgasming via masturbating + vivid female celeb fantasy, mean I'm gay?
I'm questioning and wondered if the above had any indication of my sexual orientation? i'm not sure if straight women fantasise about women? thanks
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Old 16th Apr 2016, 05:42 PM   #2
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Re: does orgasming via masturbating + vivid female celeb fantasy, mean I'm gay?

As far as I know, straight women can still fantasize about women as long as they're not attracted to them in real life. If it's just a fantasy it's cool and doesn't mean anything about your orientation. If you are, however, attracted to this celebrity in real life, that might indicate that you're a bit gay.
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Old 16th Apr 2016, 07:49 PM   #3
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Re: does orgasming via masturbating + vivid female celeb fantasy, mean I'm gay?

I can only speak from my own experiences, but I first started masturbating at 13 and I used to look at an ad of Hilary Duff in a bikini Because so many people said that straight women fantasized about other women, I sadly thought I was straight, until I realized I was most likely gay about a decade later. I know that many straight women masturbate to lesbian porn, but I believe that they are not actually attracted to the women physically, they are more turned on by seeing the women being aroused. I would say if you feel that you are attracted to these women, and not attracted to men in the same sense, then you are gay. But go with your gut. What made me truly realize I was lesbian was comparing myself to the straight friends in my life who always talked about how hot men were and I just couldn't see it.
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Old 16th Apr 2016, 11:22 PM   #4
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Re: does orgasming via masturbating + vivid female celeb fantasy, mean I'm gay?

Fantasy is completely different from reality, so you definitely could still be straight and have these celeb fantasies. Though of course, plenty of lesbians also have celeb fantasies, so there's no real clear-cut way to tell you anything other than that.
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Old 17th Apr 2016, 10:42 AM   #5
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Re: does orgasming via masturbating + vivid female celeb fantasy, mean I'm gay?

well ive heard that lots of women watch lesbian porn. I dont think that fantasizing about a female while masturbating means that youre gay
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