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Old 21st Apr 2017, 05:07 AM   #1
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Okay I'm scared because I have like guys since I was 13 and now I'm 17 I'm scared that I'm turning straight I mean im s aged because I get hard to straight porn
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Old 21st Apr 2017, 07:33 AM   #2
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Porn isn't necessarily an indicator of one's sexuality. It only matters how people in your real, everyday life affect you. Also, why are you afraid of "turning straight"?
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Old 21st Apr 2017, 08:12 AM   #3
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Because I don't want to
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Old 23rd Apr 2017, 10:53 AM   #4
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I think the key here is to not judge or shame yourself, whatever your desires may be.

Whom or what you're attracted to and your level of desire can change throughout your lifetime and there's no right or wrong to it.

I can understand your fear if you've pinned your identity to being gay but it might be wise to remember that there's more to all of us than just our sexual identity - it's one part of who we are but not necessarily the totality of who we are. You have a whole lifetime ahead of you to explore your sexuality and your identity - be kind to yourself.

As well, I was watching a movie last night and the guy said "I was 28 and if the wind blew the right way I'd get hard". I really don't think you have anything to worry about.
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