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Old 6th Dec 2011, 09:50 PM   #1
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Awkward and hard to answer question

I am a bi-gendered physical male, but I feel more female than male and I want to change to female. As in COMPLETLY female. But first I want to know if I am making the right choice. So um what are the pros and cons of having a vagina?
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Old 6th Dec 2011, 11:15 PM   #2
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Re: Awkward and hard to answer question

Pros;
having a vagina :P
having sex in a way you feel comfortable
having body parts that match what you feel they should be

Cons;
the surgery is painful
the surgery is expensive

That's my take on it.
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Old 6th Dec 2011, 11:31 PM   #3
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I haven't had it, but I have heard the surgery is painful. This is how I see it: Happiness is worth it.
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Old 7th Dec 2011, 02:45 AM   #4
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Re: Awkward and hard to answer question

yes,happyness is very much worth it.it really is but i didnt think that bi gendered people could get surgery?can genderqueers get them too?and people with no gender?
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Old 7th Dec 2011, 03:04 AM   #5
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You guys arre right. I think I can deal with the pain. Besides I LOVE pain. I know it's creepy. I think anybody can get surgery if they want it.
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Old 7th Dec 2011, 04:31 AM   #6
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You guys arre right. I think I can deal with the pain. Besides I LOVE pain. I know it's creepy. I think anybody can get surgery if they want it.
You do have to see threapists first.
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Old 7th Dec 2011, 11:38 AM   #7
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Really? Looks like I need to get therapy.
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Old 9th Dec 2011, 03:42 AM   #8
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Re: Awkward and hard to answer question

yea,u have to go through therapy.its called gender therapy and u go thru that for awile and then whenever the therapist thinks ur ready u will get whatever the female hormone is called,,..estrogen i think it is so ya.i wish u best of luck and make sure u dont get one of those christain therapists that try to liek "save u".find a decent one.u can do it online or not online
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