Thinking of guys when having sex with girl?

[Anonymous]

Hey I know i'm atleast bi, but i've been wit my girl like 2 years now..
and when having sex with her I can't get off... But if I think about guys and close my eyes and think it's this cute dude my sister knows, i get off easy...

what's wrong with me :(

[Midnight Angel]

It might be a possibility that you are more gay than bi.

[joeyconnick]

Yeah that was exactly what I was going to say. Unless for some reason you are totally unattracted to your girlfriend, what it usually means when a guy has to fantasize about about guys to get off is that they're gay.

[Paralyzer]

Perhaps after being with her for so long, you've gotten tired?
You should at first try some new things with her to see if it's the repitition of the same old sex rather than her being female. Try role playing or w/e... then maybe you could convince her to be a guy and if that really turns you on then I suppose you could try actually being with a guy.. but I know that a 2 year relationship isn't a light matter..

I definately think you should talk about having more creative sex than jumping the gun and dumping her.. but I suppose only you know what's best to do in this situation..
*Feels weird giving out sex advice..*

[Anonymous]

you could be bisexual. You are turned on by guys but make it with girls. Simple.

[joeyconnick]

you could be bisexual. You are turned on by guys but make it with girls. Simple.The original poster already said they're bisexual.