Embarrasing: I need help!!

[Quitex]

I UNCHECKED THE BOX ;_; however.

I have issues when knowing when I have my rectum clear for having anal sex. It seems like when I take a dump, it never ends, and I can keep going like for EVER. I usually take a dump 2 or 3 times a day and I always feel "full" down there. I just don't want to have any embarrasing thing happening to me regarding it.

[Anonymous]

You could use something like this
http://www.passion121.co.uk/shop/images/99078RD-BX.jpg
Glows in the dark :grin:
lol

[Anonymous]

^ Oh gosh - Don't!!!

This thread talks about this topic:

http://www.emptyclosets.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2515

Check it out, and let us know if you have more questions.

[KaraBulut]

The sticky is good- please read it.

One thing the sticky doesn't address is the different needs of those who have irritable bowel syndrome (IBS/IBD) or other problems like lactose intolerance or celiac disease.

Having a bowel movement 2-3 times a day is a little above the norm but not terribly unusual. The sensations of feeling full and feeling as if you are never done with your bowel movement point to other possible issues.

You might read the information on the following sites and see if this sums up what you are feeling. If so, you should make an appointment with your physician and see if any of these might be the issue.

Irritable Bowel Syndrome:
http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/ibs_ez/

Lactose Intolerance:
http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/lactoseintolerance/

Celiac Disease:
http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/celiac/

[Quitex]

I did read the sticky.

I guess I didn't explained myself correctly. I feel like "wanting to take a dump" most of the day, but I can only go twice or three times a day. After it, I feel like I am full, all the time. Even after taking my time and taking a dump, when I do some fingering down there (and cleaning perfectly the outside) I find myself with some feces, always (I've done this while showering after taking a long dump [45 minutes, maybe more] and it is very frustrating)

I did read the links, however, I can't find something that can really stick to what I am actually feeling.

Now this is making me very uncomfortable because since my Dad and I never had a good relationship and I don't have the money to go and see a Doctor, How could I ask my dad about going to a doctor about this? He would just tell I am overreacting, and that why would I need to be clean down there anyways? >.>

[KaraBulut]

You don't need to get into details with your father. If you haven't had a checkup in a while, you can ask your doctor during your next appointment. If you don't want to wait, just tell your father you've been feeling sick to your stomach for a while and you want to see the doctor.

When you talk to the doctor, you don't have to explain why you want to empty your rectum, you can just say that you feel uncomfortable at school/work because you feel like you need to go to the bathroom all of the time.

[Quitex]

Well the issue is that the last time I went to the doctor is when I was... 6?
Oh and when I was 14 for sinus. Then, no doctor at all. People just don't use to get checked at all, and the factor that we don't check-up regularly makes me VERY uncomfortable asking my dad or any other family member.