Straight sex

[Anonymous]

Hi. I'm not sure what my orientation is. I am sometimes attracted to men but I don't like the idea of straight sex ie penetrative sex. Is it possible to be straight or bisexual but not like "normal" penetrative sex?

[Zak]

Sure....Different people have different likes and dislikes.

[Quitex]

I guess you are a girl, right?
Well, sex is not just "penetration". There are thousands of other things you can do when straight sex: oral, hand jobs, boob jobs, etc.etc.etc and they are all ok.

Don't be afraid to get on a straight relationship just because "he won't like sex with you". If he is just there for sex, he is not worth your time.

[Anonymous]

thats true.
I'm the same way, i am attracted to some guys but i don't like the idea of sex with them.
everyone has different tastes, as Zack said. :)

[Paul_UK]

I'm a bit confused, are you male or female?

Not that it matters much to the question. Sexuality is diverse and it is possible to be attracted to some types of people and enjoy sex that would not be the normal expected with them.

We had a guy here a while ago who was definitely straight but enjoyed receiving anal sex from his wife with a dildo. It was great that his wife was so accommodating and happy to pleasure him with something that would normally be regarded as gay sex.

So there is one proof of the sort of diversity that exists. It may not be that common, but it happens!

[Anonymous]

Original poster: I'm a female.

I'm just not sure whether any guy would be happy to have a sex life that didn't include pentration because they seem obsessed by it. I know there are other things, but straight guys sometimes don't seem to...

Besides I'm not even sure if I am attracted to guys. It's all pretty confusing :lol:

[ccdd]

I know loads of straight girls who don't particularly like penetrative sex, so I shouldn't take it too much as a sign either way, unless you have no physical attraction *at all* to men.

As for orientation-confusion: who do you fall in love with? Who makes your pulse race? Who do you think about, day-in, day-out? Who do you have imaginary conversations with? And whose every word do you remember?

This will give you a better idea of your orientation thing, I think :)

Thinking about it in these terms, rather than purely physical, helped me at least.

[Anonymous]

Im Gonna Say This, Not To Make You Feel Bad But Because Im A Realist. 8 Out Of 10 Straight Guys Are Gonna Be Unhappy In A Relationship With A Straight Female Who Doesnt Like Penetrative Sex. Until Marriage You Have The Option To Abstain From Sex, But If Your Looking For A Longterm Relationship I Would Suggest Finding One With A Women, Or A Man Who Doesnt Like Intercourse.(good Luck) Its Not Wrong For A Man To Expect Intercourse From His Wife, It Is Wrong For Him To Pressure You Or Be Unwilling To Wait Until Marriage.

[Anonymous]

As for orientation-confusion: who do you fall in love with? Who makes your pulse race? Who do you think about, day-in, day-out? Who do you have imaginary conversations with? And whose every word do you remember?

This will give you a better idea of your orientation thing, I think :)

Thinking about it in these terms, rather than purely physical, helped me at least.
That just helped me loads! thanks!
And im not the topic-creator