Conversation with the parents

[-Michael-]

Okay so last night everyone in the house had a drink as it was my brothers 18th.


It was just me, my dad, and mel (his girlfriend) in the kitchen.

I was reading the back of DVD sarcasticly and acting really excited.

And my dad (who was MASHED) said
"you know what michael, if i didnt know better id think you were queer"
then he laughed

we had like a two hour conversation between the 3 of us about if id met anyone and if im sure.


My dad still thinks its a phase.
But im not holding it against him.
Its not his fault.

Then his girlfriend was asking me if im interesting in anyone and she was so supportive and understanding etc.

I asked my dad what would he do if i brought a boyfriend home.
Mel butted in loudly and said " he'd be welcome with open arms"
and my dad just slumped. So i asked again.

He said he would say to him
"This is just a phase michaels going through so don't get too cosy"

Then mel shouted at him and i had a go.

haha i don't think he remembers the conversation :)


It was fun though.
I could talk about it openly and we were having a laugh :)


Im happy :)

[beckyg]

:roflmao: Good for Mel! I wonder if your dad will say anything about it after the alcohol wears off.

[berileos]

Cool!You really know how to choose allies...

[byeee]

Wish I had that kind of conversation with my parents ^.^

[-Michael-]

Haha just had another one with mel.

Talking about if i wanted my brother to know and stuff.
I just said i won't tell them because thats just wierd.
But if they ask for whatever reason ill just say yes :)

[Lexington]

I'm pretty sure he'll remember. :)

Lex

[SwissBoy88]

Is it possible to borrow Mel for difficult conversations with parents?

[Sam]

Hahahaha! Well it looks like your dads girlfriend will keep him in line!

Seriously though just give him time. The fact that he didn't react too negatively and the worst he thinks is that it is a phase is a good sign and something he will soon realize isn't true. In the mean time you have your dads girlfriend as an ally and for support.

Sam

[Leigh]

nice one :).... i think i like mel :grin:

[-Michael-]

Haha mels cool :)

Shes one of those cool hip parents haha

Like my best friends mam...who treats me as a son and even better than my best friend herself haha

(L) Mothers just love me :)

[Asteroid]

It's great that mel is so supportive. Something tells me that your dad will be fine with it. :icon_wink

[matt3208pc]

Wow this Mel sounds awesome :) It's great you have someone like that for support.

[Myzou]

Mel sounds great! And haha, your best friends mom treats you better then her own child? That can't be good :o