Lets Talk About Fears

[ibsian]

Ok guys, i am back with a new question for you, although i am not very sure if someone posted it earlier but lets talk :icon_wink

Okey my question is that what are your general fears, like things that frighten you. Things that happen around us, or live around us. Tell me about your fears.

And if you turn it to me or you didnt quite get my question, then my answer might be helpful

'THUNDER STORM'

[Lexington]

I fear not living up to my own standards.

Oh, and any insect bigger than a housefly. Grasshoppers - ugh!

Lex

[Shrug]

I fear failing my algebra 2 klass!

and i fear spiders, i freak out every tyme i see one!!!

[sparkyboyM]

i fear being watched when like no one's around
...and camping in the woods, after watching the blair witch project anyway lol

[ibsian]

I fear failing my algebra 2 klass!

and i fear spiders, i freak out every tyme i see one!!!

same as my younger brother:roflmao:

[ibsian]

i fear being watched when like no one's around
lol

i have that fear too sometimes

[silentsound]

I fear inadequacy. I fear unknown. I fear my own fears.

[Poring]

I am terribly afraid of any insect other than ants D=

I mean honestly, ghosts, monsters... show me a cockroach or anything like that and I will shout like a little girl and run like hell XD

[Beth]

the child catcher off chitty chitty bang bang,i'm 18 & been scared of it since i watched that film when i was really little.then in town today there were street performers & i freaked out when one of them had a net like the child catcher!

oh & public humiliation is right up there on my list of fears

[Paul_UK]

Groups of rowdy people (such as football fans) always make me uneasy. I feel that every laugh and jeer is aimed at me, even though of course it isn't. That stems from being a victim of bullying when I was primary school I think.

Related to that I really worry about walking around town on my own in the evening. So I normally get a taxi from home to/from the gay pub even though it's only 20 minutes walk.

Completely unrelated, I'm scared of the dark. Not darkish, I mean pitch dark when you can't tell if your eyes are open or closed. It's the feeling of being out of touch with my surroundings.

[lexie]

i fear been outed, lol
i fear people realising
i fear abuse i might get when i come out
i fear spiders (lol-seriously)
i fear death
i fear drink drivers/reckless drivers on the roads (oh that reminds me....)
i fear the prospect of my driving test (should be taking it soon, and i know i'll be so scared lol)
also i fear walking anywhere by myself at night, that isnt well lit with lots of people round.

[Martin]

Snakes - They freak me out. The thought of one makes me feel jumpy and whenever I see one I run like the wind. :D I saw a little grass snake in Florida last time I went and I had never run so fast in my life.

Heights - Eurgh, there is no reason to leave the ground. I get to a certain height (not that high either) and I just freeze on the spot. I absolutely hate them and all sorts of crazy things cross my mind.

Needles - Now if we were meant to have pointy pieces of metal stabbed into us then we would have a hole in our skin that could open up to allow injections. As we don't have that I am assuming we are not meant to have these things stabbing us, so I avoid needles at all costs. my BCG also burnt the living hell out of me. It got infected and oozed for weeks. :tears:

I have other silly things like operations (I have a fear of waking up through the procedure), the dentist (those drills are scary) and enclosed spaces (especially when I can't move my arms). I guess I am a wuss. :D

[ibsian]

i fear been outed, lol
i fear abuse i might get when i come out
i fear death
.

well LEXIE i dont fear both of these things at all, cause i dont think anyone can be affected by what i am and i think there is nothin like immortality and everyone has to die like today or tommorow so why be afraid

[Beth]

oh yeh i wont walk into crowded places on my own if i can help it
so i actually try to get to class on time cuz i dont wana walk in & have ppl look at me
i hate getin on the bus cuz i think everyones gona watch me
i hate it when i get off a train & am meetin sum1 incase i cant see them & look stupid
so a lot of the time i get my phone out & pretend i'm doing somethin...

[ibsian]

hey BETH how many things are you afraid of?:roflmao:

[lexie]

i fear been outed, lol
i fear abuse i might get when i come out
i fear death
.

well LEXIE i dont fear both of these things at all, cause i dont think anyone can be affected by what i am and i think there is nothin like immortality and everyone has to die like today or tommorow so why be afraid

i wish i had that mindset lol

oh and to whoever mentioned needles, that reminds me, i am petrified of needles. whenever i have to have blood taken it turns into a nightmare for the nurses cause i freak out. and i cant watch it go in, ahhhh

[Beth]

hey BETH how many things are you afraid of?:roflmao:

yeh alrite lol
that was a general one,was givin examples of my not likin crowded places :icon_redf

[ibsian]

hey BETH how many things are you afraid of?:roflmao:

yeh alrite lol
that was a general one,was givin examples of my not likin crowded places :icon_redf
:eusa_clap

[GunStarre]

A few fears:
- Height
- Arachnids
- Any type of bugs

This year, one of my many new year's resolution is to get over my fears :p

[Joey]

#1: Disappointing my parents
#2: Needles (One of the reasons I refuse to give blood and I hate going into surgery)
#3: Losing my friends
#4: The dark. Not just pitch black dark, but whenever I walk my dog I about have a panic attack sometimes. Unless I'm smoking my pipe or a cigar; basically something to keep my mind occupied.
#5: Not waking up... irrational, but still.

[Mind Freak]

1. Being disfigured or scarred
2. Being kidnapped/mugged/or having someone break into my house while I'm home
3. Losing family members.
4. Being unhappy about my life when I get older and look back at the past.
5. Getting fat.

[Ronnie92]

I never really got over a fear of the dark. I know it's ridiculous but I hate absolute darkness.That heights,and public speaking *shudders*

[Beth]

up until the age of 15 when we moved house i was always scared if i was the last one to go up to bed so the hall was dark & i had to jump the top 3 stairs cuz i was afraid a bony hand was gona grab me thru the banister

[nodoubtjunkie]

I never really got over a fear of the dark. I know it's ridiculous but I hate absolute darkness.That heights,and public speaking *shudders*

we have alot in common ronnie, i really, really hate the dark, i still sleep with a disney princess night light. Heights are awful unless I'm held in really tight, like on a rollercoaster. I'm pants at public speaking too...

[Daniel]

Gaining weight. (Honest to goodness if my pants get a little tight I get a huge rush)

Caterpillars and grasshoppers.

And climbing ladders. So horrifying. I cry when I have to climb them.

[Vic]

Spiders and cockroaches make me shiver...
I also fear being in pitch black darkness. The thought that I might have gone blind terrifies me to no end.

[gutsrie]

i am completely fearless!

[Paul_UK]

The one who is fearless has an avatar with a frightened looking expression! :D

[Nicknikko]

I'm afraid of dying.
:'(

[mediumdietcoke]

- getting physically attacked. pretty unlikely where I am, but I'm still afraid.
- coming out to my parents.
- people not understanding me.

[Proud1p4]

Memory loss.
Just memory loss.

Death and the like do not frighten me.

[shakerdancee]

^ totally agree... it's IMO the worst thing that can happen to someone.

[nluvwthagrl1010]

Vomit--
It just freaks me out for someone to do it or even say they are nauseous! It's really sad! LOL!

[Lexington]

Ooo, forgot this one.

Power tools. Seriously. If my partner is drilling something, and then hands me the drill when he's finished, I have to unplug it before I take it from him. I'm positive something's going to go nuts, and I'm going to drill right through myself or him. I've never understood that one.

Lex

[XXX Lou XXX]

Spiders. I have an actual phobia of them. :icon_redf I don't even like saying the word ''spider''!

Jelly fish. They're :***:ing scary!

People I love getting hurt or dying.

Dentists. They just terrify me!

Bad teeth! :confused: Seriously, people with decayed teeth freak me out!

I'm not too keen on needles either!

Oh yeah... sour milk! :eek:

[biisme]

- needles/operations.blood
- being alone/rejected
- death

[Muzzy]

Lets see....
- spiders
- needles
- heights
- public speaking
- **being in a room that is pitch black** (yes, I'm afraid of the dark...)

Vomit--
It just freaks me out for someone to do it or even say they are nauseous! It's really sad! LOL!

My friend is the exact same way.

[jazzrawr]

I'm scared of everyone I love dying, and me being the only one left. :(
I'm scared of bugs too. I just don't like them. >.<
I can usually handle smaller ones...but big ones or bugs that bite are scary. >.<
Erm, what else...thunder storms. :| And getting cancer...:(

[smilealways]

Not being able to communicate with anyone in any way.. would be the worst thing for me.

[ibsian]

up until the age of 15 when we moved house i was always scared if i was the last one to go up to bed so the hall was dark & i had to jump the top 3 stairs cuz i was afraid a bony hand was gona grab me thru the banister
Beth how many fears do you have, you should write a small book about your fears i s'pose
:icon_wink :roflmao:

[ibsian]

Spiders and cockroaches make me shiver...
I also fear being in pitch black darkness. The thought that I might have gone blind terrifies me to no end.

Ya i was afraid of a coakroach once, when it made its way into my shoe and when i put my feet in it
'aaaaaaaaaaaa a Coakroach'
:roflmao:

[ibsian]

i am completely fearless!

Oh really?:eusa_clap

[ibsian]

The one who is fearless has an avatar with a frightened looking expression! :D
i agree with you Paul :lol:

[ibsian]

I'm afraid of dying.
:'(

- needles/operations.blood
- being alone/rejected
- death

hey guys i said it earlier and i am saying it again, you shouldnt be afraid of death, it a natural thing and one day it has to come so why worry about it

[disenchanted]

I fear stuff hitting me in the head, or falling on me, etc... I hate sports like basketball, I'm absolutely terrified the whole time. And I can't stand underneath hanging lights, etc.

=/

[Davey]

I have a fear of spiders, heights and being alone for the rest of my life.

i tell no one my greatest fear though. that way no one can use it against me!

[ibsian]

I fear stuff hitting me in the head, or falling on me, etc... I hate sports like basketball, I'm absolutely terrified the whole time. And I can't stand underneath hanging lights, etc.

=/
thats a strange form of fear, really

[ibsian]

I have a fear of spiders, heights and being alone for the rest of my life.

i tell no one my greatest fear though. that way no one can use it against me!

Good Thinking :thumbsup:

[Hln D]

The night I turned 13, I watched Mick Garris's miniseries of the Shining (NOT the Kubrick one), and the bathtub woman in room 217 scared the living crap out of me. I'm turning 16 in February, and last night I couldn't sleep for ages because I kept thinking that I saw something coming out of my bathroom in the dark. That's how much she scared me.

I'm also terrified of clowns, because they're NOT FUNNY, and yet they KEEP ON TRYING TO BE FUNNY. *cries* As well as that, I'm not a big fan of heights, cockroaches, or wasps.

[firecausesburns]

Crowds. I hate being jammed in the middle of a crowd with no way out. I used to get panic attacks in those situaitons, now I just turn a very fetching shade of white. I also have this random fear of my eyes being hurt or even touched. I can't even bring myself to get contacts.