Personality Change

[Swamp56]

:o

So, I have been wanting to try and change my personality so that I am more laid back and I move slower lol . I work incredibly fast paced, walk fast-paced, code fast-paced, etc, and I want to slow down, because it stresses me out a lot and makes me tense.

I also want to become less serious, and start joking more and more, and hopefully start trying to act out who I am inside...

My question is, how do I do this? :S
Also, there's a co-worker who knows about my sexuality and bf (she's really nice and trusting), and she said that when I started working there, everyone knew I was either bi/gay right away....not sure how...I don't act like a stereotypical gay person :confused: .

[EthanS]

You mean how to be more laid back?

[Swamp56]

Ya, basically :)

[EthanS]

You need to relax more.. thats all i can think of lol >_<

[EthanS]

I get what you mean tho by when you walk fast thats what i do and when i realise i just relaxe and walk slower, if that makes any sense.

[-Michael-]

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[EthanS]

LMAO !! it kinda does work tho lol

[EthanS]

Well not how hes doin it lol

[-Michael-]

You dance like that...and you try not to smile afterwards :')

[EthanS]

You dance like that...and you try not to smile afterwards :')

Have you tried it?? lol

[-Michael-]

You dance like that...and you try not to smile afterwards :')

Have you tried it?? lol

Everyday ;) :p

[EthanS]

You dance like that...and you try not to smile afterwards :')

Have you tried it?? lol

Everyday ;) :p

haha lol

[silentsound]

You could try taking up yoga or just reminding yourself to breathe more. Just try to relax and take a more relaxed outlook on your life, and you tend to chill out a little bit.

[Asteroid]

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So, I have been wanting to try and change my personality so that I am more laid back and I move slower lol . I work incredibly fast paced, walk fast-paced, code fast-paced, etc, and I want to slow down, because it stresses me out a lot and makes me tense.

I also want to become less serious, and start joking more and more, and hopefully start trying to act out who I am inside...

My question is, how do I do this? :S
Also, there's a co-worker who knows about my sexuality and bf (she's really nice and trusting), and she said that when I started working there, everyone knew I was either bi/gay right away....not sure how...I don't act like a stereotypical gay person :confused: .

Hi there! Try to slow down a bit. Try to see things not only from a serious side so to speak. Of course there are things you need to get done, but maybe try to concentrate only one thing at a time. Try to take breaks in between the things you need to do. One good way to slow down and to take breaks is by joining a sports club. Maybe you could look into something like this. Walking/jogging are excellent ways of relieving some of the stress.

Sometimes, we come over as being serious, and not being able to lighten up things because we think too much about what other people, including friends, might think about us. Maybe that's what's happening. Try to be yourself as much as possible.

Hope this helps!

[kramer362]

:o

So, I have been wanting to try and change my personality so that I am more laid back and I move slower lol . I work incredibly fast paced, walk fast-paced, code fast-paced, etc, and I want to slow down, because it stresses me out a lot and makes me tense.

I also want to become less serious, and start joking more and more, and hopefully start trying to act out who I am inside...

My question is, how do I do this? :S
Also, there's a co-worker who knows about my sexuality and bf (she's really nice and trusting), and she said that when I started working there, everyone knew I was either bi/gay right away....not sure how...I don't act like a stereotypical gay person :confused: .

Have you ever seen the Big Lebowski? Act just like The Dude. :lol: Realize that most problems have simple solutions and don't get worked up over it. As for me, when I'm at work I like to take my time so that things take longer and I don't have periods where I have nothing to do, because I end up getting bored.