Crush

[bitou]

I just started school and I have already a crush on a guy in my math class. He looks at me when I look at him , but I dont know how to approach him. Please help I am kinda of new on these stuff.

[ausdtc]

Hey!

I'd start with becoming friends with him, and hang out, do things together. See where it leads :)

[Swamp56]

As ausdtc said, become friends first >.< . Don't overwhelm him ;) ? Does your gaydar go off when you see him? Does he act gay/bi?

[bitou]

I think that is a good idea. Thanks

[bitou]

I think he act bi . I dont understand my gaydar , but I think that he is .He has a pretty strong eye contact and keep it when I look at him. I just need an Icebreaker.

[Wander]

IceBreakers, Liquid Ice!

[Swamp56]

LOL @ above post ^

Ya, just start eyeing him a bit, and see if you notice him staring when you're not looking :) . Are you an open bisexual or are you somewhat closteted (that not many people know) ?

[shakerdancee]

don't hurt yourself. <3

[bitou]

I am kinda in the closet

[Trayce Shaw]

be safe and make sure he is right for you. Just approach like you would a friend, or while you are at lunch ask "what's goin on"

[Derek the Wolf]

How close are you to him? If you're friends already, and you think he'd be okay with it, you can tell him you've got a crush. If you think he'd be weirded out by that, or you're not particularly close, take some time to get to know him better. Just see how things work out.

[Poring]

Probably a nice way to break the ice would be for you to ask help from him in a particular topic, I mean, its math anyway and unless you're good at it, you have the reason too :p

Or maybe, when you're in the cafeteria and you see him, go talk to him and strike a conversations like "hey, aren't you in my math class.. blah blah" "Hows it doing?"

Don't be scared! Its easier to regret awkward conversations than to regret not having them. :D

[bitou]

Thank you so much for your advices.