First one

[TexasRomance]

I would like to hear..well read about your first gay experience!
And what you were thinking or did during that time.
what did you feel?

[Kimi]

I guess I could tell about my frist experience...

Hmm...never mind. I don't like to get attacked by anyone here. Since I really like this site and don't wanna leave here...

Oh, you guys please don't be so graphic, ok?
Now back to topic:icon_wink

[TexasRomance]

I guess I could tell about my frist experience...

Hmm...never mind. I don't like to get attacked by anyone here. Since I really like this site and don't wanna leave here...

Oh, you guys please don't be so graphic, ok?
Now back to topic:icon_wink

Hm am i the only open one here?
I told about my first expierence when i first got here.

[paul7836]

hmm, well you'll have to wait a bit if you want me to talk about mine. (thats probably a good thing right?)

[TexasRomance]

hmm, well you'll have to wait a bit if you want me to talk about mine. (thats probably a good thing right?)

what? you havent had any expiernce? or you mean something else?

[paul7836]

Nope I havent.

[TexasRomance]

Nope I havent.

o_O really?
i guess its good...
but im a bad boy and i was 13 when i had my 1st expierence.:icon_bigg

[paul7836]

just curious, what was your first experience?

[TexasRomance]

um ill copy and paste for you brb

[paul7836]

I guess the reason i havent had any experience is that I just recently figured out the fact that i am gay. (I have been denying it for a year or two)

[TexasRomance]

I was like that till 13...9-13

well here it is:

Hi,

I just joined you and I feel this would be the best way to start off, by telling my story.

I am not fully out to everyone but it is obvious because I am repeatedly asked " Are you gay?" I have learned not to answer this question because if I were to say know I'd be lying to them and myself. Well here it goes..not that interesting though.

Well I had just come out to my bestfriend but what I didnt expect was that he would return the secret. We fooled around that night and it felt so right to be with another guy. I woke up at about 7 a.m the next morning strak naked with him right next to me.
He was just staring at me when I was sleeping. So I stared back and we smiled. I then got on his computer (I was at his house) and sent messages to the friends I have trusted and would understand. It was a simple message in big bold letters. Clear as day I wrote " I AM GAY."

A few replied with "really?" or " seriously?". I found it funny that 3 of them said " Thats hot! Too bad youre gay "

-TexasRomance

[paul7836]

Hmm I havent done anything that extravagant. (my parents have me on a pretty tight leash)

[SadConfusedBandGeek]

lol that sux...i have done a few things but not with someone that i would really love or have a relationship wit (And Texas i remember reading that story in ur other thread its a reaaaly cute story lol)

[TexasRomance]

ouch...well it was about your i started loosing mine

[paul7836]

When i came out to three firends (all girls) Just one of them seemed suprised, the other two were like: Yah. I guessed that.

[SadConfusedBandGeek]

lol ya girls are easier to come out to than guys:P I've come out to WAY more girls than guys:P

[TexasRomance]

Thnx sadconfused =P

4 guys and like 6 girls

[SadConfusedBandGeek]

hey u 2 should come use the chatroom lol We would get more said

[paul7836]

Im planning on takeing one of my guy friends to the mall and telling him. Does that sound reasonable? or IS texting better. Its just really bugging me. ( i guess i have a crush on him)

[paul7836]

I have to get flash installed on this dang computer give me a couple miniuts.

[TexasRomance]

no texting...
trust me!
think about it...he may not delete it and some girl might use his phone...
or another guy...
or he could use it agianst u and save the message to his phone

i dont get i sadconfused " hey u should use the chatroom lol we would get more said"
explain?

[SadConfusedBandGeek]

(the flash actually only takes a few seconds lol)

And I got to scared to tell anyone face to face
BUT! I SOOO Got confronted on a bus! lol (We were all coming back from baseball) there were at least 50 People on the bus! AND EVERYONE was listenitng lol

Kinda embarassing!:P

[SadConfusedBandGeek]

We should use the chatroom on this website..its easier than posting:P

[TexasRomance]

Um i dunno how to do that but...if you can show me ill do it.

[TexasRomance]

Um i dont get why u said u were confronted on the bus...
what does that have to do with anything? lol

[SadConfusedBandGeek]

K at the top of this page there is a thing that says

My Settings FAQ Members List Calendar Chatroom

Click on chat room and read the stuff

[TexasRomance]

ok

[paul7836]

well, im starting up my Windows virtual machine. (I use linux 64 bit, so no easy flash plugin)

[TexasRomance]

lol when u gonna go to chat room?

[Miaplacidus]

OK, my first experiences.

The first one... I was 13. This guy was staying at my house, we were watching porn, he got hard and I just began stroking him through his pants. One thing led to the other and I ended up giving him head.

The first time I went all the way was, um, this year. I met this guy and took his cherry less than two hours after that. Then he took mine. I spent the night with him, we did it 7 times, then I left and haven't seen him since...

[TexasRomance]

thats a big leap
head at 13 all the way at 19...
o_O

[joeyconnick]

Im planning on takeing one of my guy friends to the mall and telling him. Does that sound reasonable? or IS texting better. Its just really bugging me. ( i guess i have a crush on him)My opinion: texting is not a good way to tell anyone anything important. It's great for boring, useless daily things or organisational things but it's horrible for anything meaningful.

I think the mall is a way better idea. Provided you can get some type of privacy.

[TexasRomance]

My opinion: texting is not a good way to tell anyone anything important. It's great for boring, useless daily things or organisational things but it's horrible for anything meaningful.

I think the mall is a way better idea. Provided you can get some type of privacy.

yup

[paul7836]

dang it. Ok so I just went to a movie with him, and totally chickened out. I just couldent tell him for some reason. Well I guess ill get together with him later this week.

[TexasRomance]

dang it. Ok so I just went to a movie with him, and totally chickened out. I just couldent tell him for some reason. Well I guess ill get together with him later this week.

do it before its too lat and someon you ask you if you are gay and you tell thme no
in front of his face. and then he will stick up for you if anyone else does it then you might feel real stupid when you do come out to him.(*hug*)

[paul7836]

if only that hadent already happened :(

[wtinal]

My first experience.....when I was 13 years old a friend of mine (female) just basically attacked me on her bed - not attack in a bad way, but is wasn't like there was any discussion before it happened. I was quite distressed about it. First, talk before acting would have been good. My response to this experience - I dated a guy for ten years to avoid the fact I was gay (The guy was paralyzed from the waste down, so he really couldn't have sex. And he didn't have any sex drive other ways either. It made it nice and convenient. We were great friends, we had no intimate relationship, and no one questioned whether I was gay or not.)

[xxAngelOnFirexx]

I never really had an experience... Besides cuddling and hand holding...

[TexasRomance]

I never really had an experience... Besides cuddling and hand holding...

o_O so cute (*hug*)