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Revan46
22nd Jun 2005, 07:11 PM
Well basically I told some of my closest friends, then began telling some of my other friends. However one of my "close" friends sent an email of the convo in which i told her i was bi...and sent it to the entire school. So ya, dunno how but I forgave her, but ya luckily not everyone knows if its true or just a rumour...

nisomer
22nd Jun 2005, 07:17 PM
Hey and welcome! Wow, that must really be hard on you. I don't understand why someone would do something like that, especially a person that you thought you trusted.

Revan46
22nd Jun 2005, 07:25 PM
i dunno...its just high school for ya

nisomer
22nd Jun 2005, 07:34 PM
yeah very true. i was just talking to a friend of mine yesterday who goes to a different school. she said that someone had made up a rumour about her being in the hospital just coming out of anorexia, even though she didnt even miss a day of school!

anyways, hope you are doin ok. dont let something or someone like that ruin your life.

Revan46
22nd Jun 2005, 07:47 PM
i wont, plus i might have finally found someone who's interested in me, even tho i live in st. thomas (Ontario) and he lives in London (Ontario) but you know their only bout 20 minutes apart. but yup im fine and he's coming to stay the weekend July 1-3 while my parents are in Ottawa. So then I can try and make progress, him and i hav been talking for bout 3 months. but ya ill post here to let you know how it worked out

confusedkid
22nd Jun 2005, 08:31 PM
Hey BiTeen16! Welcome to the forums!

And umm, your "friend" isn't a friend... you're better than I am though. I wouldn't trust her with anything personal ever again.

Anyway, now that you're out... CONGRATULATIONS!

-CK

hawkeye
23rd Jun 2005, 12:24 AM
wow, i was pretty darn scared for you, untill i realized that the e-mail is at a different school. Be careful though. If all of those kids remember your name, it will probably be brought up if their parents mention you or your family. It just kinda depends on how connected your towns are. I'm guessing you are about to be a junior (grade 11) from your age(just like me), and I'd be scared out of my mind. I guess you have to start putting up with others and accept yourself in public at some point though.
hmm, ok, I have an idea about coming out, but I'll just write a new post.

There goes the "last skittle last post" thing i decided on in the pbs post 5 minutes ago.

Revan46
23rd Jun 2005, 11:20 AM
im actually going into Gr. 12, since im 17. so ya top of the school, as well as the only open gay, lol

confusedkid
23rd Jun 2005, 02:14 PM
im actually going into Gr. 12, since im 17. so ya top of the school, as well as the only open gay, lol

Good for you! Work it, baby! :tongue: :eusa_danc

-CK

Revan46
23rd Jun 2005, 06:17 PM
Good for you! Work it, baby! :tongue: :eusa_danc

-CK

yup its gonna b fun. ill prolly actually fully come out next yr

hawkeye
23rd Jun 2005, 08:25 PM
ahh, 17, dont know how i got that wrong. I guess i should become a senior next year because of where my birthday lies. Oh well.

Revan46
24th Jun 2005, 11:45 AM
its ok, ur school system might b different, you could have been ineligible to start school when u could have