I am back...and now I need some help.

[Findoneself]

Wow...I missed this. I was on vacation. But I am back! And in dire need of some advice. So...I have now come out to all of my close friends and it went extremely well with each one. They were all so supportive. But now I like someone...a girl. And...well I suppose it all started first semester of my Junior year (this year we just had) and then once second semester started we lost touch and I sort of forgot about her. But now that summer has arrived I have been thinking about her a lot and I visit her myspace all the time. And then me being an idiot...I sent her a message that was slightly suggestive. We are going to be hanging out on wed of next week and I am sort of wondering what I should do...? Any help guys?

[Cloud Nine 5]

Is she straight? Are you planning to go out with her alone?

[Findoneself]

Sorry...I should have mentioned she is bi, too. She came out at the beginning of the year and already had 2 girlfriends. A lot of people actualy think she may be a lesbian....

[SpikySpice]

Well, then if you really like her, tell her the truth taht you like her;)

[Findoneself]

Aye yie yie....I wish it could be easy...and yes, we are going to be hanging out alone.

[SpikySpice]

Then I wish you luck, if you like her, just go for it:thumbsup:

Well, you are the one who makes it hard or easy, just go slowly, and you're there

[Findoneself]

Yeah...that is true...but how should I bring it up...she doesn't even know I am bi yet...should I test her with that news and see how she reacts or something?

[SpikySpice]

Well, this is easy because you already know taht she is bi,

You jjust make some conversation tehn slightly change the subject and tell her you are bi..

You are right, you can wait to see her reaction You have to expect any outcomes;)

If she dosent freak out like some other people, then go to the next step, tell her you like her, and wait so see her reaction again

If she is ok, then ur done;)

[Cloud Nine 5]

Maybe she already realized that you're bi. If you're not close friends (doesn't sound like you are) and you two plan to go out alone, she probably already knows that something is up.

Like SpikySpice said, you just gotta try to bring it up. Just be confident about it and since shes already out of the closet you can ask her to keep it a secret for now. You don't have to tell her right away that you really like her, just see how it goes after you tell her you're gay.

[downboyup]

Maybe telling her wont necessarily mean you can get together. It is something you have in common, yes, but how about a bit of old fashioned flirting? that can be fun.
'i like what you have done with your hair'. etc etc. invite her out. wear a melissa etheridge t shirt. (corny - sorry)
tell one of her friends you have a crush on her. it will get back to her. then she has the chance to act.
good luck.