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Choucho
27th Jul 2007, 10:18 PM
Okay, so by now you've all met the super happy Jacob that likes to bounce around and shower people with kittens, but now it's ranty time! Yay!
And for all those who have intentions of reading this, I'm truly sorry.

First of all there was this guy. Me and him were kind of involved recently, but he canceled every single plan we ever made together and "forgot" to come eat lunch with me for five months in a row. No joke. We never talked on the phone once, and in fact, my ex from New York (note that my profile says I live in Canada) phoned me a couple weeks ago, and with his satanic parents who blame me for him being gay, I'd say that was quite an accomplishment. Yet this guy who's out to his parents, and lives half an hour away can't call. Magical isn't it?
So anyway, he ended up sleeping with someone else and telling me about it. So we broke up, or stopped liking each other, I don't even know what to call it. But we stopped being anything more than friends. He called me an asshole and told me I'm not the nice guy I pretend to be and told me to stay with him. At this point I'll remind you he was the one who slept with someone else. Oh yeah, he also told me "I'm sorry I never had sex with you" when I told him about a million times that that wasn't what I was after. I have the sex drive of a frigging plank of wood for crying out loud. I told him he obviously didn't understand the situation, and well... lots of angriness resulted.
We started talking again a couple days ago, and I forgave him for being a complete asshole and all was well. Until I mentioned that my ex had called me. All of a sudden he was telling my friend that he was jealous and that he wasn't over me. Tonight he told me he wanted to talk to me about it.
In short, I told him the truth that I would never get over my ex, because he was the first boy I ever loved, and no one ever gets over their first love. And I told him that that didn't mean that I couldn't get on with my life and love someone else.
And somehow, I'm a drama queen who played him and never cared about him and fucked up his life. And when I reminded him that he was the one who slept with someone, he just said "Well I wasn't getting any from you." and it was just like "Umm... no. No you weren't. Am I supposed to be offended by that or something? I didn't sleep with you on purpose."
But anyway, as far as I can see he's an askljsakljas (replace that with any swear word you deem appropriate) and he's not worth my time.
Yet I feel like a worthless pile of crap and I just want to die.
Oh the sparkly joy that boys bring to me!

Level N Human
27th Jul 2007, 10:56 PM
You'd be worthless and undignified if you were still with him. I would guess you feel bad at the moment, because of course anyone coming out of a rough relationship would feel shitty. Do yourself a favor and stay far, far away from this strange, unstable, already-known-cheater. Someone better for oyu will come along.

For the moment, hope you feel better man!

Psych!
28th Jul 2007, 04:11 AM
Honestly, I have to agree with her. Why would you stay with someone if you know he's a cheater. You respect yourself enough to know that you should have left hime. You can do way better than him. Remember that there's gonna be someone that will fulfill your needs, but forget his cheating :***: and stay as far away from him as possible.

CrimsonThunder
28th Jul 2007, 04:55 AM
He sounds like a twat, I hope you're feeling better soon Jacob. (*hug*)

Paul_UK
28th Jul 2007, 10:08 AM
I completely agree with what those above have said. You deserve much better than that, and sooner or later you will find it.

Choucho
28th Jul 2007, 10:44 AM
Thank you all, yes I know he sucks but still. asdklasd

Psych!
28th Jul 2007, 02:05 PM
I know he sucks

You can be very sure of that.. :icon_wink

Choucho
28th Jul 2007, 04:58 PM
In every way imaginable. >.<

GuitarGirl1350
28th Jul 2007, 08:22 PM
Cheaters don't change, even when they promise you they won't betray you. I made the mistake of giving a cheater another chance and just got hurt again. I'm glad you aren't with him anymore, you should definitely have more self-respect than that.

Choucho
28th Jul 2007, 09:47 PM
I gave him many chances, many more than he deserved. But he couldn't even manage to pull off being a friend.
*builds us a boat so we can stand in it together*
But, at least it's all over now.
*builds an island, and puts a sign on it that says "assholes from the past"... then turns the boat around so it's facing the other way*
Yes, all the bad experiences are behind us. ^_^

thecoolmexican
28th Jul 2007, 09:48 PM
Yeah, that guy was such a douchebag. You were the only sane one in that relationship anyway. You'll find better. WAY better. ^-^

Choucho
28th Jul 2007, 10:11 PM
Awwwh, thank you. ^_^ *glomps*
*showers everyone with plushies*

JayTeeNY12
29th Jul 2007, 12:25 AM
He's the loser who needs to go die, not you jacob. Obviously Sex is everything to him so he's not worth it anyways. Dunno what else to say, so yeah.

Jacob > him.

=D <33

Choucho
29th Jul 2007, 12:38 AM
Awwwh, JayTee. You're the most bestest everrererererergivemeyourbelt :P
No, I'm just kidding. Thank you.
<33 *showers with plushies and random things that smell good*

phoenix17
29th Jul 2007, 12:59 AM
can i throw snakes at him

*looks at jacob with puppy dog face*

Psych!
29th Jul 2007, 04:07 AM
can i throw snakes at him

*looks at jacob with puppy dog face*

Why throw snakes at him, throw him in a shark tank :thumbsup:

crimsonarcher
29th Jul 2007, 10:13 PM
hehe.

Choucho
29th Jul 2007, 11:15 PM
Oh, I don't think that's necessary. I don't hate him. I just never want to acknowledge his existence again. ^_^ But if you really want to I won't stop you. >.>
*goes to bake a pie*

Edit: And thank you again everyone. ^_^ *individual hearts for all*

JayTeeNY12
30th Jul 2007, 12:42 AM
Why throw snakes at him, throw him in a shark tank :thumbsup:

SHARKTANK YES! Sounds like a plan. =D

TeeBe
30th Jul 2007, 01:20 AM
Wouldn't piranhas be more fun?

Jim1454
30th Jul 2007, 06:58 AM
Yes - cuz they take a million little bites rather than just a couple of big ones!

(Wow - who knew I had that in me?!? :badgrin: )

Psych!
30th Jul 2007, 07:03 AM
Wouldn't piranhas be more fun?

ok, now i dunno which one's better :badgrin:

Gera-Kun
30th Jul 2007, 08:45 AM
awww.w i feel for you! T_T IDK what to say, but keep on living your life!

Choucho
30th Jul 2007, 11:12 AM
Wouldn't piranhas be more fun?

Ooh!
We could build a GIANT tank. And then have sharkies in a walled-off tank on one side, and piranhas in a walled-off tank on the other side. Then we put him in the middle, and lift both the walls, and see which one gets to him first! ^_^

Edit: And thank you to above. ^_^ I'm getting over it. It left me feeling quite worthless at the beginning, but a hyperactive brightly colored child like me has no use for such feelings. :P

Psych!
30th Jul 2007, 11:57 AM
Ooh!
We could build a GIANT tank. And then have sharkies in a walled-off tank on one side, and piranhas in a walled-off tank on the other side. Then we put him in the middle, and lift both the walls, and see which one gets to him first! ^_^

Edit: And thank you to above. ^_^ I'm getting over it. It left me feeling quite worthless at the beginning, but a hyperactive brightly colored child like me has no use for such feelings. :P

Yes, yes, I see, that's the best thing... Ohh, I have goosebumps..., let's plan this out (&&&)

And you're very welcome.

Choucho
30th Jul 2007, 08:35 PM
I SUCK!

Ugh. He asked a friend to ask me if I had him on block. I told her I did. He asked her to ask me to take him off. I said no. She said he wanted to explain something. I told her to tell him to e-mail me. While I was busy zoning out and imagining all the things I would throw in his face in a reply e-mail, she was busy insisting I take him off block and listen to what he had to say.
And this was the most difficult part. I couldn't figure out how. Because I had deleted him as well, so he now appeared in the group "Non-instant messaging contacts", so it didn't show up that he was blocked. But since he was in that group, I couldn't re-add him. I figured it out (somehow, I forget) and he began to explain what a dick he was etc. etc. (As if I needed anyone to point that out for me.)

But here comes the part where I suck.
I forgave him!
*hides face in shame and claws out eyes*
WHY DO I DO THIS TO MYSELF :tears:
I suck at not forgiving people. I really do. I'm too nice for my own good.
I'd say "someone's going to take advantage of that someday" but he already is doing that.
:eusa_doh:
:bang:
u.u This sucks. I hate being a forgiving person.

Psych!
31st Jul 2007, 08:13 AM
Don't scold yourself!!!!! You're just a nice and forgiving person, I was too, but I learned when something could be forgiven and when something couldn't.

Gera-Kun
31st Jul 2007, 08:32 AM
Don't scold yourself!!!!! You're just a nice and forgiving person, I was too, but I learned when something could be forgiven and when something couldn't.

and i guess i'm not to be forgiven? i said i'm sorry, and i really had lots of fun talking to you...i really do feel like a dick with what i said yesterday...

RGX Guy
7th Jun 2008, 11:42 PM
Lol. Its amazing how people will try to flip the script. At least you didn't mess around with him.

You will be ok though you sound like a tough cookie. :)

whenufree
9th Jun 2008, 08:37 AM
All i can say is Run as far away from him as possible