I wana die

[Latinokid]

I told my best friend i was gay and it was worse than anything ive ever experienceed he told me he hated homos and to stay away from him i tol him "tnx bud" he said yeah np . Why r some people so close minded and ignorant? I feel like crap and i wana die

[Nicknikko]

ohh i'm so sorry.. i'm passing through rough times too ;[

[SpikySpice]

awwww(*hug*), please dont die:(

It's stkill a big problem in the society, epopel still hate peopel for certain reasons, but it's their problems, not yours, so just ignore them
. He was not a good friend afetr all, because he shoudl accpet who you are

This also happen to me as well, they said hurtful thinsg to me, it was bothering and hurting at first, but at last i realize it's life, crazy things can happen and anyway , good job for comign out, you should be proud of yourself:)

Well he said he hates homos and told you to stay away becuz he thinks you have a crush on him and he dont want guys. Normally when a guy comes out to another guy, he thinsk that that guy likes him

[Behling]

I am so sorry Carlos. My friends like to rip on gays a lot too. I know it sucks hun, but if he can't accept you for who you are then he does not deserve to be your friend

[Kibuki kid]

OMG! Thats terrible! (*hug*) Dont worry about him i know it hurts when friends act like that but if he's really your friend he'll come around, in the meanwhile dont get depressed if it really hurts focus on others things just or try and talk to people about it, whatever you want to do. Im so sorry that he reacted that way, human beings arent perfect but this is what we're all afraid of when comming out im just so sorry he was so mean. If you can think of anything we can do name it, were all here for you.

[gabriel1]

Hey Latinokid - Rise above the ignorance, you are too smart to play into that game. You feel lousy because you thought this was your best friend. Well a REAL friend would not say that. A real friend would say it didn't matter if you were gay. You are a cute guy with a good head on your shoulders from what I've read in your posts. SMILE - you are among real friends at Empty Closets. :kiss: :)

[Ilayis]

that was downright mean and uncalled for from him!You don't deserve that from anybody!I'm sorry it happened.Just stay strong and don't let it get to you.You have us,we might not be there with you in person,but we are here for you!(*hug*)

[Latinokid]

Thanks guys. I just feel really shi%%y ive known him for 4 yrs and he just let it go removed me from myspace and out of his life. I talked to a friend and came to terms than i dont need him and FUCK HIM!. Im guna tell my closest friend that we go back for 11yrs thats the last person before my mom i need to tell and i really dont care anymore. So tnx guys for ur hlp =) means alot to have ppl like u. And i have one 4 guy friends that took it swell and said it doesnt matter

[Sam]

that sucks obviously he wasn't a good friend to begin with, you don't need him anyway if he treats you like that. unfortunately there are always gonna be people who are so close-minded that they can't see past who you like and just be a friend

[Jim1454]

Some people are stupid. He apparently is one of them. You're better off without that kind of person in your life - whether you were gay or not! I hope you don't uncover any other people like that in your circle of friends, but if you do, at least you'll know where you stand with them.

Good luck!

[pianoguy]

I told my best friend i was gay and it was worse than anything ive ever experienceed he told me he hated homos and to stay away from him i tol him "tnx bud" he said yeah np . Why r some people so close minded and ignorant? I feel like crap and i wana die

oh man
I'm sorry
thats tough...
people need to open their closed little minds :(

[Nerdtendo]

Yikes. thats really rough. ...but hey, coulda been worse. he coulda acepted you for that then hated you for an even stupider reasion. *thinking of a certien individual at the moment*

[paul7836]

I feel it for you, but if he is so mean about it, thats more his problem than yours. He dosent deserve your friendship. Im feeling bad for urging you to tell him. So if its any constellation, im sorry.

[Whitsy]

That’s one of the type of reasons I’ll never tell my friends well maybe my closest friends and that’s about it

[canadian bear]

so sry to hear that and ur right f*** him if he was truely your friend he wouldnt have said those things to you. (*hug*)

[bvtsjm116]

I'm sorry to hear that happened. >< I'm really not sure what you should do, but, I'd probably personally see how he is tomorrow, but if he really was your 'best' friend he should learn to accept it. It might be awkward to him or surprising and maybe you should give him a second chance. Its up to you. =/

[jayden]

I told my best friend i was gay and it was worse than anything ive ever experienceed he told me he hated homos and to stay away from him i tol him "tnx bud" he said yeah np . Why r some people so close minded and ignorant? I feel like crap and i wana die

im sorry that this happen to you also. i was very nerous about telling my best friend peter the other week that i was but he said really nothing at the time and then told me he was the next week

[joeyconnick]

I feel it for you, but if he is so mean about it, thats more his problem than yours. He dosent deserve your friendship. Im feeling bad for urging you to tell him. So if its any constellation, im sorry.Yes, it's Pisces. :lol:

I think you mean "consolation."

[joeyconnick]

That is so awful... I'm really sorry. I get what everyone means about him not being a good friend anll and I'm sure you do to but I don't think it probably makes it hurt any less. That kind of reaction just isn't a good thing.

[TriBi]

I was going to post a few words - but Jim basically said pretty much exactly what I was going to - Oh, and IMO he's spot on!

[xxAngelOnFirexx]

Sorry about your friend. yeah i think its a good idea to just forget about him. There is always other people who will accept you. (*hug*)

[Latinokid]

Update, i got over that friend and yesterday i told my closest friend that ive known for 11yrs and he took it well and is coming over today to watch SuperBad =). And i told his girlfriend so now im out to mpore people and i dont care what peole think anymore =D

[Grof142007]

(&&&) (*hug*) Yay

[beckyg]

Latinokid....I'm so happy to hear you are doing better. I think you will find for every one person that acts like this, there are going to be 5 to 10 that behave wonderfully when you tell him. That kind of love will outweigh any hurt that this person put you through.

[boynextdoor]

Glad your making progress. (*hug*)

[Negasta]

I'm so sorry to hear about this LK :(

*Hugs LK*

[Tom]

huggles!

[EthanS]

awwwwwwwwwww(*hug*) i gess he aint a real friend then =(

[panda]

L'kid, The power of the EC group gives you the strength to handle your situation.Our hearts and thoughts are with you at this very moment.

[bigmoney521]

Trust me friends like him are not realy your friends. Ignorant people like make me so mad sometimes, beleive he is not worth time to stress about.

[Beachdreamer]

Hi

That must truly have hurt and nothing I can say is going to change how it made you feel at the time.

If he is a true friend and a halfway decent person, he may come back into your life in the future. Some people need time to reflect and get used to the idea that their best friend is gay.... on the other hand some people are just ignorant and selfish. Unfortunately, only time is going to tell.

Not sure how to say this, but dying is not the answer - so please hang on in there and soon it will be more bearable.

[Phantomblade]

hey, im sorry to hear about what happened with your friend. but im glad that you havnt let it stop you from coming out to more people. there are just some people out there that wont accept you. but thats their loss not yours. good luck and we are all here for you

[sicksicksick]

That's terrible D:

[Ty]

What youve described lationkid, are exactly the replies im expecting =/

Your not alone =[

[Latinokid]

Thank you for all your kind words guys and advice really nice to know you have ppl who care =)

[Torture]

Man, I guess he wasn't a real friend huh? glad you came out to you're other friend and his girlfriend tho! wtg.

[Louise]

You are better off without people like that in your life. That's his loss, I 'm sure you have a lot to give. At least you know with your other friend that you can really count on him when things get tough in your live. I wouldn't bother wasting anymore thoughts on such a bigoted person, they are not worth it.

[godfather]

thats awful....really sorry some people are really small minded and in my opinion stupid to be like that.this wil be a tuff time for you but remeber that that one person can change you and there the wired ones not you fell better soon!!

[biisme]

i can't really offer any advice, but i'm sorry. hopefully he can move past it and he will value your friendship more than "preconcieved notions*. i hope it gets better!