what does this mean?

[crimsonarcher]

anyone remember about the guy-in-summer-school-who-sits-behind-me thing I used to talk about in the summer?


well,...he gave a letter to me through a girl we both know...

he said, "why are you scared. i see no point in being scared..."

what does he mean?

he either knows I'm gay or he knows i used to like him (which would then mean I'm gay)
....

I haven't even seen him since i was given the letter.
what does this all mean?

:confused:

[EthanS]

:grin: oo he probly is gay

[Ty]

The guys definitly gay

[rorotherara]

Gay :] BUT since you are smart little cookie, test the waters, test the waters. I've known so many who were lured into traps by cruel evil little straight twits. SO, make sure he is. Flirt, he flirts back. Etc etc.

[Ilayis]

sounds gay to me

[ALieToDieFor]

anyone remember about the guy-in-summer-school-who-sits-behind-me thing I used to talk about in the summer?


well,...he gave a letter to me through a girl we both know...

he said, "why are you scared. i see no point in being scared..."

what does he mean?

he either knows I'm gay or he knows i used to like him (which would then mean I'm gay)
....

I haven't even seen him since i was given the letter.
what does this all mean?

:confused:

Oh snap.
LOl i wouldve been as nervous as heck.
Well either you did something to make him think you are scared or he is gay and knows you are gays and wants to know why you are scared to say something to him.

[Bryan]

Ok, the gaydar just went off, but seriously, you should go and talk to him.

[Phantomblade]

yea definitly gay

[SpikySpice]

GAY:)

1st of all, base on his question, he wanna comfort you not to be scared, taht means it's ok to be gay if he already knows you are gay, so taht means he maybe gay too
(but or a straight guy who is ok with gay people)

BUT why didnt he send the letter to you by himself, or talk to you face to face, taht means he is nervous as well, when a guy is nervous about nother guy, he must have some emotion for that guy, or he is gay

[crimsonarcher]

that's what i thought too...

OK...monday, i'll have to find him...

ahh, I'm so excited, yet nervous!!

[greg]

Talk to him face to face ask him "so what do you think I'm scared about, and what are your fears" look him in the eye, you'll get the message. (the eyes are the window to the soul) greg

[Vates]

I'm thinking Gay too..

Good luck on Monday!

[Louise]

It means he's as scared as you. One of you has got to be brave, sounds like he's interested to me :thumbsup:

[JayHew]

Sounds to me he has taken a bit of the intuitive and broken the ice so to speak. I would consider it a means of saying he is interested in you but couched in such a way as to be able to give another explanation should you reject the idea of him being gay. But would definitely follow up on it. It actually sounds promising.

[neverover]

its wednesday, hows it goin on monday?

[ALieToDieFor]

its wednesday, hows it goin on monday?

lmao. -.-
I wanna know too!
Did you freak out and decide to dodge?
Its cool if you did I wouldnt have...but thats just me.
Lots of people get scared or over-welled when comfrontimg someone they
like.
Like this guy taylor who sits behind me in my autoshop class...Talk about sexy :P
idk if he knows im bi..but i sure as hell want him to know

[surfrboykai]

Ok, the gaydar just went off, but seriously, you should go and talk to him.

imo, you can't determine if a dude is gay from a letter like crimson got. i mean, the dude could just be like, straight, but ok with gay people. test the waters is my advice

[godfather]

probs gay but speak to him first:icon_bigg

[crimsonarcher]

well, he hasn't went to school since he gave me the note...I'm kinda starting to get worried.

[Louise]

Well, he is either sick or is really worried about the note he sent you.

The best way to stop worrying is to take a course of action. You could send him a note, through the friend who gave you his note, just saying Hi, how ya doin, haven't seen you around much this week.

That's pretty neutral but shows that you have noticed his absence, ie that you care. :thumbsup:

[ALieToDieFor]

Well, he is either sick or is really worried about the note he sent you.

The best way to stop worrying is to take a course of action. You could send him a note, through the friend who gave you his note, just saying Hi, how ya doin, haven't seen you around much this week.

That's pretty neutral but shows that you have noticed his absence, ie that you care. :thumbsup:

Or something like " Im not scared. * insert winking smiley face here*

[crimsonarcher]

well, he responded...but it turns out that he wants to go to another school and that he was sick during this week....also saying why am I not proud of who I am because I didn't have "gay" on my myspace....

BUT 1 GOOD thing happened...


he told me that he was too..:D

[Kibuki kid]

Oooo! So what's next plan of action?

[crimsonarcher]

don't know....

since he's not going to be there anymore.....don't know.

by the way, did I mention that he was a senior?

[Kibuki kid]

Aww! Oooo!

[Paul_UK]

Can you keep in touch with him anyway? See him outside school as a friend, chat to him on MSN or whatever?

Perhaps you could change school too.... That's not really a serious suggestion.

[crimsonarcher]

Can you keep in touch with him anyway? See him outside school as a friend, chat to him on MSN or whatever?

Perhaps you could change school too.... That's not really a serious suggestion.

I could.
but i'm not sure if I should even follow through this.

[ALieToDieFor]

Well hey at least you know.
I would try and talk to him more.
If you like this guy then go for it

[Paul_UK]

How long do you have before he changes school? If you have time to get to know him better them you could probably sustain a friendship or whatever once he has left. But if it is only a couple of weeks then it's probably best to just let him slip out of your life and move on.

[Louise]

Depends what you are looking for but I think Paul is probably right.

Unless this is a great love of your life long distance relationships are really hard work and a casual relationship doesn't really merit the effort either. Let go, get on with your life, there are loads of lovely guys just waiting for you to turn up in their lives. :icon_bigg

[crimsonarcher]

well,it looks like we're just friendly contacts.
It's OK though.
It's better this way!

[surfrboykai]

i dunno if you said this or not yet brah, but how far away is this new school?

[crimsonarcher]

kinda far.
walking honestly would take forever.

[crimsonarcher]

but yeah......something tells me this isn't the last i'll hear from him.