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Zec24
2nd Oct 2007, 02:21 PM
So in the last few days I have managed to come out to 2 more people. Bringing my total to 8! On Sunday I came out to one of my good friends. It took me 2 hours to build up to it and when I finally admitted I was gay it was in quite a roundabout way. She said she thought it was awesome and didn't care. She didn't seem at all shocked but thats probably b/c I think she has suspected it for a while. She was appalled to learn about some of the stories I have heard about parents disowning or not accepting their children, and since she knows my parents, was slightly disappointed in their reaction.

Then today, I wrote to one of my former teachers and told her my situation with coming out and my need to confront my parents again. As a parent herself, she gave me some good advice on approaching my parents and gave me her complete support.

I'll be attempting another talk with my parents soon as I think I'm ready to approach them again. I'll let you guys know how that goes!

Just thought I'd share some positive news for once. (!)

Jim1454
2nd Oct 2007, 02:31 PM
It's always good to hear good news! Friends like that are AMAZING!

Bryan
2nd Oct 2007, 02:37 PM
good job, that is never easy!!

SpikySpice
2nd Oct 2007, 02:39 PM
Yay, Im glad for you :)

Your teacher is sooo nice, i wish one of mine can help me liek that

Ilayis
2nd Oct 2007, 03:15 PM
well good for you

Grof142007
2nd Oct 2007, 06:29 PM
Yeaya

Zec24
4th Oct 2007, 10:04 PM
SpikySpice,

I just sort of took a leap of faith with my teacher, i wasn't sure what her position on homosexuality was when I told her. It was very tense waiting for a reply, but the reply was well worth the wait. I had no reason to worry. Most teachers are fairly understanding and open minded, I'd say your teacher would probably be glad to help you.

Louise
5th Oct 2007, 01:48 AM
You are a very brave person. Coming out is a very difficult thing to do and you seem to be doing it in a way that suits you. I feel really good for you. :eusa_danc With every positive reaction you build your confidence for the next Keep going, you're on the right track.