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Ilayis
10th Oct 2007, 09:20 PM
Alright,last week my cousin was joking around to a waitress I was working with saying I was gay,even though I'm Bi,but they didn't know about me anyways so I just went along with it.Tonight when me and my cousin were driving I decided since I wasn't going to see her tomorrow and we are cool with eachother I just used that night for an excuse to tell her.I told her I thought of that time with the waitress,we shared a laugh,then I told her she should get it right,and say I'm Bi.She asked if I was being serious and I told her that I was.She said she has many gay and bi friends and that she doesn't care what people prefer or do.
I'm happy she was cool with it.I don't know if she would tell other people,but I don't care,I kinda hope she spreads the word just to make it a little bit easier for me.
Tomorrow I plan on continuing my coming out ride by telling my aunt who is very good at keeping my secrets and is very understanding with me.
To some people who will wonder why I would want my cousin to spread the word about me being bi and my aunt keeping it a secret,my aunt is from my moms side of the family,and my cousin is from my step-moms side of the family and the families don't like eachother or talk to eachother.

I'm so happy!!!!!!!!!:icon_bigg

BlueRose
10th Oct 2007, 10:08 PM
Congratulations! I'm happy it worked out for you.

Torture
10th Oct 2007, 10:39 PM
Wtg man!

Louise
11th Oct 2007, 01:17 AM
I am so so happy for you (!) :eusa_danc :eusa_danc :eusa_danc (!)

Bromptonrocks
11th Oct 2007, 03:58 AM
Well done....I'm happy for you, too. Have a banana!! or two....(!) (!) (!)

Ilayis
11th Oct 2007, 07:57 AM
thanx all

sngl
11th Oct 2007, 02:27 PM
Wow, looks like you're on a coming out spree :lol: It's great that you have family members who are so understanding! Good luck with telling your aunt as well! :icon_wink

biisme
11th Oct 2007, 02:39 PM
congratualtions! u have more courage than i do.

Ilayis
11th Oct 2007, 02:47 PM
we all have courage,just need to find it within yourself hun,and thanx

SpikySpice
11th Oct 2007, 04:56 PM
YAY, kudo Ryan ^^:thewave:

Yup, we all have th courage, but you gusy dont reallize that, all you need is some boost, and you'll give your best shot