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puppysquisher
11th Oct 2007, 03:40 PM
well i just sent an email about the coming out day thing to my moms email... so bloody nervous for when she comes home.... :(
i think i spent 15 minutes staring and the send button hahaha
but thanks in advance to everybody here
if i hadnt read the threads here i wouldnt have ever summoned the courage to have done this....
*waits impatiently* <3 <3
biisme
11th Oct 2007, 03:51 PM
good job! i know how hard it is to hit send. i came out for the first time last night to my best friend on facebook. i went into total shock after i clicked it. congratulations again for taking the first sep!! good luck!
BlueRose
11th Oct 2007, 04:03 PM
Congratulations on your first step!
The waiting is always unbearable; I feel your pain.
SpikySpice
11th Oct 2007, 04:40 PM
Good job good job, pat your back pat your back ^^
Just relax, rest your mind, do somethign for now to distract you from the worriness, breath in breath out :)
Tell us what happens k
puppysquisher
11th Oct 2007, 04:48 PM
shes here but hasnt checked her email yet and its KILLING ME XD
im trying to get a friend to get on counter-strike in the meantime :S
thanks for the comments you guys
Jim1454
11th Oct 2007, 08:48 PM
Good luck... keep us posted!
IHeartDisney
11th Oct 2007, 09:23 PM
Wow you are one brave person. I don't think I could stand it if she was actually home and reading the email while I was there. Yikes! Good luck!
Ilayis
11th Oct 2007, 09:28 PM
I hope it goes well for you
Louise
12th Oct 2007, 01:17 AM
Well done, the waiting must be killing you, hang on in there, the ball is in her court now.
Wishing you all the best :kiss:
puppysquisher
12th Oct 2007, 06:20 AM
AAAAGH
i got no reaction from her last night so i was a bit worried... turns out i sent it to the email wich she happens to not use anymore:bang: .... (would have been useful to know BEFOREHAND :***: )
cant tall her tonight because a friend is sleeping over :eusa_doh:
*sigh* saturday afternoon il just tell her in person... this didnt need to be so complicated but i should have expected my bad luck to make things tougher... :tantrum:
school time now:sleep:
thanks again you guys
Paul_UK
12th Oct 2007, 09:40 AM
Yes, in person is better if you can manage it. There's none of the waiting for a response.
Please let us know how it goes.
Ty
12th Oct 2007, 09:41 AM
Gah i hate the suspense lol! Hope it goes well =]
BlueRose
12th Oct 2007, 12:58 PM
Good luck!
biisme
13th Oct 2007, 03:35 PM
good luck if you haven't told her yet!! be sure to say how it goes!
puppysquisher
14th Oct 2007, 04:41 PM
yay!!!
everything went super well :D
at first she thought i was joking but she fully accepts it
....but she still wants grand kids hahaha (not gonna happen)
its feels so great not to hide anything to her anymore
but my friends are gonna have to mature a LOT more before they get anything from me :badgrin:
hahaha i feel like a fool for worrying so much :lol:
BIG THANKS to everyone here again again again
(while we were talking she was googling stuff for some glbt groups in the city and came upon a club for bears by accident... :roflmao: )
biisme
14th Oct 2007, 05:05 PM
i'm so happy everything went well for u! congratulations and bravo for having the courage to tell!
BlueRose
14th Oct 2007, 05:21 PM
I'm glad everything went well and that your mother was so accepting.
NkyJ
14th Oct 2007, 06:25 PM
Congratulations man! You're very lucky to have a mother like that.
Kibuki kid
14th Oct 2007, 07:26 PM
Congradulations! Thats great lol i know exactly what you mean, my friends need to do some growing up before i can tell them anything (if i tell them anything at all). Anyway...Congrats! Its great that your mother reacted so well!
Jim1454
14th Oct 2007, 07:59 PM
That's good news! Thanks for passing it on!
Ilayis
14th Oct 2007, 09:57 PM
its great to know it went so well,congrats
Louise
15th Oct 2007, 01:31 AM
CONGRATULATIONS!
I'm Sooo happy for you. Phew, I bet the relief of it all is overwhelming. Good for you and your mum(!)
Friend
20th Oct 2007, 09:37 PM
Congratulations! You have far more guts than I do. Can't you believe how many barriers have been broken? How closer you two can be?
Good job. It really takes guts to do that, and I'm more than happy that it worked out.
Gera-Kun
21st Oct 2007, 08:13 AM
hehe, great that everything went so welL! Congrats!
Psych!
21st Oct 2007, 08:30 AM
Yay congrats!
and good luck with that grand kids thing.
Torture
21st Oct 2007, 04:38 PM
Congratulations. (:
Wonderwall
21st Oct 2007, 08:30 PM
Congrats!
I wish I had a mom like that, mine has said several times 'I don't want a gay son'
Grof142007
21st Oct 2007, 08:50 PM
grats woot welcome to the out Club
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